yesterday, I called my boyfriend because I was concerned that he was getting bored with me and I though our sex life for him was getting boring too, coz the other night at his place I went dry.... when I told him about my feelings and concerns he blew up and shouted at me, I understood his point of view and when I asked him if he understood my point of view he told me he doesn't care about my point of view, he told me he's tired of me making little problems out of nothing, I told him I was sorry and asked him to be honest, I asked are you happy with me? do you love me? he answered YES, irritably, he said he'd call me today and he hasn't called yet, he normally always calls me in the morning, I feel like he's going to dump me, I'm tired of being hurt, I feel like it's all my fault, what can I do? What should I do, I feel like it's tell late and he's going to leave me
2007-02-05 23:37:25 · 15 answers · asked by Sheepless 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't make problems up because you are bored in your relationship. You're pushing him to tell you his feelings. Guys don't talk too much about stuff like that. Us girls, it's all about feelings and we tend to talk about it too much. Give him some time to chill and when he's ready he'll call you. Just don't push him!
2007-02-05 23:57:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look! It doesn't matter what HE does. It's all about you. And what can you do to make your Life better. It's a blessing in disguise. I have the chance to give you some good advice. Ans it'll make your Life, happy as you want it to be.
I'm asking everyone put Love, back where it's suppose to be. The Heart. Your Heart! Your Emotions are coming from Your Heart. If you show it, from any other part of your Body? It'll fail. And probably when you lest expect it. Thing Love, could be one of those. Bring your Love out of your Heart. You can find someone, that has a Heartbeat, just like yours. It can work, if you try it. God Bless You!
2007-02-06 07:49:43 · answer #2 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you thinking girl?? He sounds like a complete idiot, he has no feelings for you, he is really using you!! He is not compassionate or sensitive, yet you keep on trying, hoping that he might be nice to you!! All he is doing is using you as a punch bag!! You sound like a really kind and soft hearted person, you should find someone that cares as much about you as you do them. What kind of future do you think you have with him if he's already like this?? Dump him and be done with it, do it first it will make you feel a little bit better!! And I am a male, You go girl!!
2007-02-06 07:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by Zaphod 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well any man who doesnt care about your point of view is an ****!!!! If you guys have a serious relationship then you should be able to understand both points! It's not just a one ways street! When he yelled at you about the whole sex thing, from experience I am going to tell you that guys don't notice underlying explanations of an event like we do, so thats why he says he doesn't want to argue about small things! Then for him not calling he is reflecting, leave him to it, if he calls then talk to him and ask him to come of and try not to yell explain to him what you are trying to get at, and if he doesn't call then f*ck it, why should you have to make the relationship work if he is not willing to do his part!
2007-02-06 07:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by cherri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, he shouldn't be shouting at you for voicing your opinion...you're allowed to have one.
Second of all, you're better than that and deserve MUCH more
Don't spend your time worrying about someone like that. Someone or something better will always come along. You certainly need to be out of that situation if you can't even talk to him about "the little things that bother you."
Your point of view should come first to him and he should be willing to listen to everything you say.
YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT!!
"The Only Many Worth Your Tears Will NEVER Make You Cry In The First Place."
2007-02-06 07:48:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like an asshole to me... but believe me... there are plenty of fish in the sea!! You shouldn't be worry about a guy that doesn't care about your point of view. Also if your man is getting mad because your girl dries out... **** him. Because no girl aaaallllwaaayyysss stays wet.... that would be a straight up lie if any girl told you that! And also... if your girl thing gets dry... either four things:
1) He not hitting it right
or
2) He doesn't get your sexual aroused before sex and during
3)You got to many orgasms!!!
4) you don't feel like having sex with him...
2007-02-06 08:00:07 · answer #6 · answered by JessiKa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg this guy is a complete prick. what kind of bf would tell his gf that he doesn't care about her point of view? such a prick... dump him sweetie u deserve soo much better. Your trying to communicate with him and he just throws it back in your face.
2007-02-06 07:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by o o g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the problem will solve, he must to tell that his problem too... u can't com plane from nothing, u feel something and u telling him and he translate it that u make troubles... in my opinion give him space and if he really loves u and need u he will come to u, and beg u i can't live without u... so calm down u doing good... just he must to tell u what really feel, and what his feelings..
2007-02-06 07:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him before he dumps u..
been there.. he got angry too when i asked him if he was over me.. but i never found out why exactly..
he is pretty happy having dumped me..
just get the higher hand now.. n dump him first. n trust me.. he is not worth it.. jerk.
2007-02-06 08:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by anamika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any man that tells you he dont care about your point of veiw or your feelings does not love you they want to control you
dump him
2007-02-06 07:45:39 · answer #10 · answered by blu3_3y3d_bitc4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋