I’ve seen this guy around town and I fancy him. One night I was out and I noticed he’d started working behind the bar at a place I go to. I found out that he knew one of my mates. The next day I asked my mate about him and my mate said he fancied me. So I told my friend I fancied him too. The next time I went to the bar me and my mate were chatting to him. He said he was single.
Then later on that evening I was with my friend while she was chatting to someone and I felt someone smoothly put their hands around my waist…. it was him the barman I like. Last week I sent him a message via a website and have had no reply from him. Don’t understand because that hands around the waist incident seemed like a definite come on. Then when I went out last weekend I saw him again whilst he was working. He made the effort to say hello to me (which I thought was nice). I said hello back. Also whilst I was talking to my friend she said he was starring at me.
Does he like me? I’m confused.
2007-02-05 23:37:03 · 19 answers · asked by rainbow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO...... HE WANTS TO SHAG U.......
2007-02-05 23:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes it sounds like he really does!! If you sent him a message via the internet, maybe he's not had a chance to check it yet?
Maybe he's a little shy? You should go up to him and have a conversation with him - see how that goes. If all goes well, ask him out or give him your number.
Good luck and let us know how it goes!! :-D
2007-02-06 07:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by Cat burgler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think that yes its the case,he likes u!! But maybe he's confused and got some wrong information about u, Just ask him what's the matter and try to clear everything between you two.
And also add how much u like him.
2007-02-06 07:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by xenon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better the phone than on the net but there is no reason why he couldn't get a message back to you.
Ask your mutual friend to arrange a gathering (Anyones birthday coming up?) of some type where you and he are both invited.
2007-02-06 08:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by Deep Heat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My b/f, while he has email and internet access rarely uses his computer. Maybe it didn't see it. Also, some guys type so poorly (sorry guys, just my opinion, women too but men seem to dominate) that they don't want to get into the email thing, preferring face to face communication. So, I wouldn't let that deter you. Find something that he might like to do and then ask him to join you.
2007-02-06 07:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by ME 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did he ever receive your message though ?
Keep the conversation going and he'll come round. Sounds like he's pretty busy in the ladies department.
2007-02-06 07:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the matter with you? of course he does, but I warn you, because he introduced himself by putting his hand around your waist means that he only wants a shag and that's it. if that's what you're looking for then go for it and make the first move.
2007-02-06 07:54:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you - there is probably a good reason why he hasn't replyed to your msg - nest time you see him ask him out - if you don't some one else might
2007-02-06 07:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by Soul Reason 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's playing hard to get its a game blokes like to play for some strange reason,if he likes you and he's worth it then let him come to you. DO NOT do the chasing let him come to you.
2007-02-06 07:41:52 · answer #9 · answered by dubgirl26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he wants you or just messing with your mind barmates can get anything the work the bar so many chance for him to turn to a woman for sex or one nighters???you think about if he really wants you or what you have to give him?????????
2007-02-06 07:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by usafjettroop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he does like you and probably wants you as much as you want him. What are waiting for darling? Go for it before someone takes him.
2007-02-06 07:39:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋