I have a girl friend who really drives me nuts when her moody comes! It usually happenned when she's about to have or in the period. At the first time, I thought that it's something normal to a girl. But lately, I can't really take it. When she's moody, she don't wanna talk with me, answer my call, or even reply my short message. She just turns like a kind of rude girl.
Usually I just let her that way (not calling her or even talk to her so often), waiting until she's back to normal and apologize to me. But still she's angry with me if I do that. She thinks I am not a caring boyfriend if I just let her that way. I just don't know ho to handle such a childish and spoiled girl friend. I need a girl or woman perspective that can give me solution to my problem.
2007-02-05 23:23:17 · 10 answers · asked by Mon Cheri 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her I know your acting this way because you don't feel well. Let me know when you feel better and we can go on a date or something. I hope you feel better soon.
Tell her that and she will recognize that she's being rude and i know when i get all rude and moody my man always snaps me out of it by confronting me with my moodiness.
2007-02-05 23:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by Christina H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well face it, Girls are moody! So are men though too. Its part of life, and you need to not be so selfish and let her be moody sometimes. Its all about hormones.
At the same time, you need to tell her that You understand she is moody, or understand she isnt in the mood to talk to you, but that It really hurts and bothers you when she doesnt show you attention when she is on her period.
There has to be a compromise
2007-02-05 23:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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I have a girl friend who really drives me nuts when her moody comes! It usually happenned when she's about to have or in the period. At the first time, I thought that it's something normal to a girl. But lately, I can't really take it. When she's moody, she don't wanna talk with...
2015-08-18 17:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello I hear you ...Yes gals usually get this way once a month some worse than others ...well the best thing you can do is understand that when that time of the month comes that she may act up some and give her a couple of days to feel better...believe me she is not the only mean gal at that time of the month alot get very sensitive and angry easy that is a normal thing ...so just being kind to her and understanding that when she is acting up that its just that time of the month for her so just being a bit patient with her will help alot...also maybe you might talk to her about it and tell her to answer your calls or messages that you want to be there for her and your gonna try and be understanding ....but that when shes gonna act up to at least warn you that its time again take care
2007-02-05 23:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by blugeanie923 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That time of the month thing gets used alot for an excuse. I know from speaking to certain people it can get really bad though.
Rudeness I don't buy. I think I would seriously ask myself if I'd want to spend more time with her, or if I should move on. I think you already reached that conclusion, based on your last sentence.
2007-02-05 23:29:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about my girlfriend gets real moody sometimes to man its normal just tell her u don't like feeling worthless when shes all moody and work something out just remember ALWAYS talk to them if u love them.
2007-02-05 23:27:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should tell moody girl that u can be moody without her and turn into moody boy!
its caused by hormonal changes.. dude. she is in *pain*
she is not exactly going thro fun herself.. maybe u can be moody together.
or
if u must make her happy girl.. u should be understanding.. n nice. n get her sweets. n lots of teddys.
2007-02-05 23:27:30 · answer #7 · answered by anamika 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it needs a lot of patience, but give her a chance to at least make an effort/ TRY to balance her mood. for all you know, this could always become an excuse if always tolerated.
tell her to take vitamins - by the way i think there are food supplements that help improve "mood swings".
2007-02-05 23:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as it is hard to be around, there are ways you can help her moods.
You can buy her chocolate, it seriously releases chemicals to the blood stream that help with moods.
Let her know she doesnt have the right to be bitchy around you just over hormones and see if she can find help for it. there are many many many remedies. get her to go to the doctor and get help and she'll be happier.
2007-02-05 23:28:55 · answer #9 · answered by maggiemae821 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
continue to tolerate if you really like her.sweet talk her, get her some gifts.but talk to her about it after the incident. if you really cannot stand her moody attitude , dont msg her, dont call her, just ignore her. if she asks you why are you reacting like this tell her both of you needs time to think about it over. if she really like you alot alot , she will feel bad and think about it over. thinking maybe she have done smth wrong, taking you for granted. she will come apologising to you hoping you will forgive her and give her another chance. she will come back to you eventually.
2007-02-05 23:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by distordedx 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋