Three days ago I met this amazing girl and we've been kinda flirting ever since, yesterday I walked her home and she said I should come over for dinner sometime, now I want to invite her to watch a movie at my place today, do you think if I do this she will think I'm coming on too strong or even just trying to get inte her pants, I really like this girl and I don't want her to get a wrong idea. What should I do?
2007-02-05 23:22:51 · 11 answers · asked by jan_dehoog 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Before I said anything about coming to my place, she told me that there is a party tonight and that we should go together, then I said maybe we could meet at my place before the party and watch a movie, and she said that she had class till late, (we go to the same university by the way) and that we could do the movie another night. What do you think of this? How interested do you think she is?
2007-02-06 01:02:52 · update #1
i think it is ok!!!
but its better if you tell some of your friends to come . she will be more comfortable for the first time in your place!
2007-02-05 23:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by M*K*H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she did ask you over for dinner..? Why don't you ask her when that dinner offer is going to happen and see what she says. She might just be referring to a dinner with no strings attached-but thats unlikely. First take her offer, at least this way- your building up on something she said. Or have you been over to her place for dinner already? Im confused. If you havent, try and bring it up again. Tell her something like.... are we still doing dinner, if you want we could do dinner and a movie at my place..but you know what, whatever your comfortable with! This sounds like you actually care, and don't necessarily want to get into her pants. But if it happens--then so be it ;-
Good Luck!
2007-02-06 07:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by Leila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just go ahead and ask, but do it in a friendly way....Bring it up like this.. "I really like hanging out with you. We should get together and see a movie some time, either at my place or yours"
That way it doesnt seem like you want more than what most women think that men want....either that, or take her to the movies first, it would be much more formal. Girls like when guys take them out.
2007-02-06 07:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just invite her to a movie out of your house if you are serious of not getting into her pants. However if she wants it then go ahead and enjoy
2007-02-06 07:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by pet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has already invited you to her house, so in that case I don't think it is too soon. You are right to take things slow, so just the movie today OK! Enjoy!
2007-02-06 07:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Shrek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try asking her to the movies instead of watching a film at your place. you´re right, asking her to your home might give the idea that you wanna get in her pants.
2007-02-06 07:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon guy..who ya think yer kidding..of course you want to get into her pants ... they may not fit you right but isn't it really your dream to dress in her clothes? LMAO...
Just send her tome..I'll bite her, turn her into a vampiress and from that time on you and her will have a lovely time with you constantly fighting her off every time she takes a long loving look at your neck...LMAO
2007-02-06 07:30:07 · answer #7 · answered by Lord_Frederick . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
INVITE HER WHEN U R ALONE AND EARLY THEN SEE WHO GETS INTO WHOSE PANTS FIRST U B THE JUDGE.. NO WOMAN WILL OPEN UP UNLESS SHE WANTS TO YHAT IS 4 CERTAIN, EVEN IN RAPE CASES WOMEN KNOW THEIT RAPIST 99% OF THE TIMES.
2007-02-06 07:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by KOHLI V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite her for a dinner with ur parents(if possible),that will give a good impression that ur worth to be trusted,
2007-02-06 07:30:20 · answer #9 · answered by dreamboy_4_u0072002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it doesn't feel right then don't do it
2007-02-06 07:26:07 · answer #10 · answered by Claire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋