Know my current bf is jus precious, but its not that i`m so religious but my principles are spiritually inclined. He keeps asking me 'wats so wrong if we kno we truly love each other?' I think i`m finally starting to stutter, help me out...
2007-02-05 23:19:23 · 17 answers · asked by roxxy babe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not religious, or spiritually inclined or anything so I'm not 100% sure what to tell you but when I have been in a relationship and you know you have to wait before you rush into sex, you can get slightly sexually frustrated. But thats ok. Don't worry, every human is like that.
Do what you feel is best. If you do give in, your doing nothing wrong at all, just enjoy yourself! And if you still want to stick to your guns, make him wait. If he loves you, he'll wait and that will make it all the more amazing when you do finally do it.
2007-02-05 23:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by MrsMatsuyama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is huge pressure on everybody.. male & female to have sexual relations before marriage... I know it's the old saying.. If he loves you truly then.... He will wait...
That's not easy to live by but if your principles are that strong then you hold out.. No point in having regrets about it.. You do what feels right too you...
Good Luck..
2007-02-05 23:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you see yourself marrying this guy, then maybe you should consider at least sleeping together, not sex, if you're not ready, but spending the night, close and personal. You'll find out if you feel comfortable with that, and then see if you want to go further. How disappointed you'd be if you waited and then you discovered that you weren't sexually compatable.
2007-02-06 00:47:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay strong and keep to your principles. Your b/f already knows about your principles and sounds to me as though he is pushing you to see how far you'll let him go before you give him.
I also think that he will dump you after you have s*x with him so this is another reason for you to stick to your principles.
2007-02-05 23:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your beleives or feelings make you not want to have sex before marriage then that is your choice and your partner should respect that. If he/she doesn't then they are obviously not the right partner for you. There is give and take in a relationship but if that's a strong beleive then why shouldn't you be able to stick to it.
2007-02-05 23:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex after marriage? Wow. There's a concept.
2007-02-05 23:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by Away With The Fairies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, i do aware how you feel actually because I have experienced the same even way before i got married. Yes, I submitted to my ex at that time, though I ended up with different guy as my husband now.
How to say "NO" then between my legs, when I want to feel the thrust deep within me !!!! How to say "NO" when it might make your bf feels rejected. How to say "NO" when saying so is actually a lie to myself ???
I started to realise that sex before marriage is a thought of the past, really. What is the different between being penetrated by a hard penis and penetrated by our own finger(s) ? Most of us done that even way before we got married, anyway !. So, what is the different ?
2007-02-05 23:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by m_linda77 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I personally think its irresponsible to wait until you are married to have sex, but saying that, if you are not ready, then you should wait, and your boyfriend should respect that.
Or perhaps you could fantasise with your boyfriend - might be interesting...?
2007-02-05 23:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love him then i think there is nothing wrong with it - any doubts then tell him you wont do it till your wedding night - If he truly does love you he will wait
2007-02-05 23:27:04 · answer #9 · answered by Soul Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boundary is not until after marriage, then that is that.
If he keeps pushing for it, would that not be a clear sign that he doesn't care about what you want?
2007-02-05 23:25:00 · answer #10 · answered by Jed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋