My guy friend is a wonderful person. He would do ANYTHING for me. However, sometimes he will overstay his welcome at my house or want to hang out ALL the time. He wants to date me but I know (for a fact) that we will never date. I am not attracted to him.
But the real issue is, how do I tell him politely that I need space?
We're at college and since he wants to hang out every second, I lose chances to talk to other guys I'm interested in. It's started to really frustrate me. And I don't know how to tell him without sounding like an absolute ******. Can anyone help?
2007-02-05 22:48:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This past weekend, I just spent the time alone. I needed it. And now he wants to talk because he thinks I'm a really bad friend. I apologized, but I'm still really, really annoyed.
2007-02-05 22:53:21 · update #1
Sometimes you got to be an ****** to get your point across. Some people are so dense they just can't take a hint. This guy is way to clingy and more than likely madly in love with you. Once you lay the law down on this dude, he'll get the message and move on and give you the space you desire. If he doesn't then you may have to get a restraining order.
2007-02-05 22:53:45 · answer #1 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him straight forward, "that the window of opportunity for you to see other guys is getting smaller day by day and that is what you want to do" tell him that" I want meet other guys just like you want to meet other woman so lets pack up your sh|t and get eh hell out of my place" you can't be too vague about it. the guy is literally staking you. I don’t give a rats @ss how nice he is. You have to f-ck some one every once in while too.
2007-02-05 22:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have a boyfriend back home. Make up a fake boy friend.
2007-02-05 22:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make arrangements with your girly friends for girly nights that cant include him because they are for girls only
2007-02-05 22:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by ginger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best way is just be honest.
2007-02-05 22:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by mosrider2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋