But the problem was that neither of us had the courage to tell one another ' i love you ' until one day another girl managed to steal him from my life,
I know he really cared for me and loved me but i can't/couldn't/won't understand why he suddenly turned to another girl.Everyone blamed me for being too tongue-tied, but then i thought it should be a MAN not a woman who starts all those moves in the game of love.
I cried hard for a night and thought i couldn't live without him. But now i don't even take him as anybody in existence. Does that mean that i can't love anyone constantly? who's wrong - the guy or me?
2007-02-05 22:27:09 · 12 answers · asked by Baby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No one is wrong! You kept your mouths shut and no body was able to hear from another, until somebody else came and opened her mouth and won him.
I just hope you've learnt your lesson! The question is will you behave in similar way in future. If you do then you are most likely to face similar situation.
Opportunity hardly comes to us twice!
All the best!
2007-02-05 22:37:19 · answer #1 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love one another you dont' have to say it out loud. That is movie crap that people take as truth.
If he really loved you he would have stayed with you. offered committment and no other woman could have come between you. So maybe you were more in love with the idea of being in love than he was? If he never offered you marriage than he didn't really mean it. Sometimes people believe temporary physical connection is all you need and love is passe`.
You will find someone else. That is as long as you can let go if that guy in your mind. He used you .. you should be mad and take a break meditate on your stupidity and don't just find another guy right away. Otherwise you will dump him or he you cause you will keep thinking or talking about the previous relationship, you have to get past that first.
You will be fine soon, your not the first person this ever happened to..
2007-02-05 22:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so hard on yourself. The fact that he left you for another girl probably would have happened whether or not you told him you loved him. If he loved you too, he wouldn't have chosen someone else. And a person can't be "stolen" that was his choice. Sorry. But at least you can stop worrying about the what ifs. The sooner you accept that it was out of your control, the sooner you'll get over him.
2007-02-05 22:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no right and wrong, sweetie......you just have a poor definition of Love!!! You are immature and did not experience Love in the remotest sense. You are kidding yourself about this guy......he did not care that much for you.....sorry! Find some other interests and Grow Up before you continue to have a misinformed definition of Love!
2007-02-05 22:40:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Hema,
Some things are not ment to be and maybe he was not ment to be yours. remember never give up your happiness for any other indivual other than your own self.
By the way there are no games in love and next time yes be expressive in love, drop a hint but dont be hurt if you are refused.
BY the way remember this " what is yours will come back to you and what is not with you was never yours in the first place so why fret over it"
email me if you like!!!
2007-02-05 22:35:18 · answer #5 · answered by is_cupid_stupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people have loved and lost. No one is wrong, you just werent meant to be. Of course you will find the right one and you will know when it happens. Paul Simon wrote: "Some people never say the words 'I love you'. It's not their style to be so bold".
I always had a problem with that. Love will find you soon.
2007-02-05 22:41:24 · answer #6 · answered by skindeep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was once in love with a woman I though I was going to marry....now we don't talk anymore, and I rarely think about her....I miss the times we had but not her, we both now have another boyfriend/girlfriend...and we are both completely happy...i say let him go...theres plenty of fish in the sea.....
2007-02-05 22:31:46 · answer #7 · answered by chsbaseball0313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he did not love you, and most importantly, he was a cowered, he wanted you to say it first, why didn't he tell you first, after all he was the man, you are lucky that he is not part of your life. move on, you will find some one who will make you forget all about him
2007-02-05 22:33:51 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy really loved you he wouldnt have left youl. and if you truely belive that he does love you then there is a chance to win him back..you have to fight for what you want..and its okay that you didnt say i love you... some people just cant say it until they truely truel know. and belive me there is nothing wrong with you.,.. someone hurt you. it happens to everyone..and belive me you will ove again. maybe with the same guy or maybe with a different one.
2007-02-05 22:52:07 · answer #9 · answered by Pookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i`d say the guy. if he really loved you he`d be with you right now.
2007-02-05 22:31:36 · answer #10 · answered by Dr Universe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋