2007-02-05 22:22:49 · 27 answers · asked by angelina copola 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my parents do not approve of him......but i know he loves me a lot...........and i love him...
2007-02-05 22:31:33 · update #1
well y not get married?
2007-02-05 22:24:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please constrcut a great china wall between love and marriage. A perfect Loving couple may not be a perfect married couple. Moral are the standards set by a particular sect of people with whom you live. Physical relationship is a need like food water and shelter. But to have a home made food or a restaurent food is one's personal choice. By the way everything is morally right if you manage to keep things secret.
Cheers!!!!!!
Pankaj
2007-02-05 22:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by Pankaj B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A marriage certificate is just a piece of paper. If the person you are with knows how you feel and is OK with it how could it be wrong. In this day and age marriage means less and less, I have been with my partner for nearly 9 years and we are not married but it doesn't mean i love her any less.
At the end of the day it is not your parents who are with him and if it turns out the relationship is a mstake then learn from it and move on.
2007-02-05 22:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by paul m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come on, that's like asking if premarital sex is morally acceptable. Recent studies show 95% of all people in the USA under the age of 60 had premarital sex.
Now is premarital sex Morally right ?
If your question left out the word Morally 99% of the answers would be yes.
2007-02-05 22:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless your under age then your parents shouldn't have that much influence over your relationship. If you love him and want to be with him do that, but if your not, then getting involved physically will only complicate things.
2007-02-05 22:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Morals are individual, not a rule. Under my code of morality, it is the right thing to do when it's done with respect and honor, and we don't misuse or cheapen the privilege by sharing ourselves with too many partners.
2007-02-05 22:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by itry007 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he really cares about you like loving you. He should be ready to be with you in a long term relationship and marriage.
2007-02-05 22:26:58 · answer #7 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you're not going to marry him no.
Having sex is not just a physical thing, whatever people say, it's the connection of two souls coming together as one. Religious or not, having sex is giving some of yourself to that person.
It's like a flower; every person you have sex with, that's another petal off the flower. When you finally meet your husband, what do you have left to give him?? Just the stalk? That's ugly..
Trust me, I know.
2007-02-05 22:27:39 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs Stevo 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Of course not. Morality deigns when you give yourself to another in real love, you should have all ready made that committment to stay the rest of your life, you dont' have that in mind. But you knew that all ready didn't you?
2007-02-05 22:28:56 · answer #9 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why wont you marry him?? I guess its up to you every ones morrals are different - As long as he knows its just a bit of fun then yeah why not
2007-02-05 22:46:30 · answer #10 · answered by Soul Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it is, you're a free spirit and if this is what makes you happy now then so be it. its only morally wrong in the eyes of prudes!!! go on enjoy yourself, you only live once and never marry someone because its correct morally, marry someone because they are the one for you xxxx
2007-02-05 22:25:58 · answer #11 · answered by louise 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋