We are not having a relationship but we occasionally meet up for sex.
She phoned me last night crying saying she thinks shes pregnant! She was really full on and wants me to got to the doctors with her.
What do I do? This wasnt supposed to be anything serious, I dont want this.
2007-02-05 22:20:03 · 14 answers · asked by Crusty Feet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should of kept your snake in its cage !! i dont suppose she wants this either if she phoned you crying but if you do the deed be prepared for the consequences, sorry to be harsh but its life !
2007-02-06 02:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by pussycat doll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly..it took two of you to get into this situation. And i dont mean to sound like a nagging old woman but if you were wearing a condom you would not be having to ask.
Be a man and help the girl out. Its only right that you should support her. Belive me its just a scary even more for a girl.
Next time wear a hat mate. xx
2007-02-06 06:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by kelley k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes 2 to tango, and are you sure that she didnt want anything more serious?
You are partly to blame. You should go to the doctors with her, and will support her through the appointment. It is the decent thing to do. If you are old enough to have sex, and old enough to be having casual sex, then you should be old enough to handle the consequences.
2007-02-06 06:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by natasha * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should have covered up. Secondly go to the dr with her and find out the best ways to handle the situation. Drs often have infomation for situation like yours. But don't freak out if you were man enough to sleep with her then you should be man enough to deal with the situation.
2007-02-06 06:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by jalean0515 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do the crime you do the time buddy.
You need to go with her and be a man about it. You are as much responsible for this as she is. If she really is pregnant it may not even be yours nor is it sure she will keep it
2007-02-06 06:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the doctor with her, spend money for abortion, stop contact with her after that and hope both of you learn your damn lesson by paying for abortion and killing a life.
Pls don't hastily go into marriage, it will make the matter worse, cause it is for the rest of ur life, the girl's life and the kid's life.
2007-02-06 06:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by lemonfridge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with her - she obviously means some thing to you if only a a friend (a sexual one at that). If it is yours then your going to have to talk with her if you see some future with her give it a go if not then tell her you feel that way - Either way if it is yours make sure your there for him/her - Its your respocibility as it farther
2007-02-06 06:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by Soul Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More fool you! have you not heard of protection? be a man and go with her to the doctors, if you run away now you will regret it in the future.
2007-02-06 06:25:17 · answer #8 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though this is not what u planned, you have to take responsibility for your actions and support her like a man. good luck
2007-02-06 06:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by italiana_bella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to get it sorted out. Remember it may not be yours too.
2007-02-06 07:58:19 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋