He thinks you're ugly yet love you??

Question

Ok, so he's the (stupid) boyfriend who always mention about how not-good looking you are, yet claims he loves you more than anyone else and he doesn't give a damn about other girls even though they're so pretty and **** like that.

Today pissed me off cos he let out, "I used to make fun of faces last time. So this is what I get for all those times for hurting people." Basically he means he gets ME for all those times he poke fun at ugly people. I was so bloody hurt just now. I even walked away from him. He cried, saying he loves me, and swear he'll never say that ever again.

Then we were fine. But now I thought about it again. I feel so stupid... what do you guys think??

What is he really feeling???
How ugly I am??
Does he really love me like he say he does??
Should I just move on???

Answer 1

Do you think you're ugly? Maybe it's his way of controlling you. Some guys will try to make you think that you are not desirable so you will feel privileged to have them even pay attention to you. If they continue to tell you negative things about yourself you might start believing them and your self-esteem takes a horrible beating. You end up being so grateful just to have a guy because you think no one else wants you. Even if you are "ugly" it shouldn't be something he throws in your face. I would move on if it was me being treated that way. He can't say he loves you if all he is doing is hurt you. That's not love that is pure sickness. He is pure sickness! Love and take care of yourself and a guy who loves and finds you beautiful(no matter how you look) will come along in your life. If you stay with him you are only going to get heartache from him. He is being verbally abusive and it will only get worse, not better. A lot of time verbal abuse turns into physical abuse. Move on with your life without him before it's too late. Now go stand in front of a mirror and tell yourself "I am beautiful and I deserve to be treated with love and respect!" Do this everyday until you truly believe it! BEAUTIFUL LADY I wish you all the best.