Me and i cuttie hve been in a serious relationship 4 close to two yrs nw and everything has been movin well. Bt nw she has started dissapearing for like 2 days without mi knoledge and when u ask her she just says she had gone to check on a friend, gone to the market etc and there was no network in the area so she cut get in touch wit me. like dat...like dat...u forgive her bt 2morro a nother story bt she does nt want to see u wit other galz. she called last night and i refused to answer her call instead i gave some gal to answer on mi behalf and i hear she is nw very bitter wit me. for dat she sent her younger sister to ask me to return all her belongings, which i refused. we have have hard sex twice since and she is mi first gal, watsup here?
2007-02-05 21:42:06 · 6 answers · asked by solot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to sit down with her and talk about what's happening! See where the relationship is really heading because it's no use if you are staying in a relationship where there are secrets or where one of you is not interested anymore. Find out what's going on- Good luck!
2007-02-05 21:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by Motti _Shish 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OHhhhhhhhhhh really! Trust?????????? The most important thing! But common boy........that's pretty obvious, she wants to get rid of you.......That's normal.In this life things will come and go...... If you think your doing everything just to let things work but still shes trying to avoid you.......Then you can do nothing about it. Always remember that's only a part of life experience. Don't take it as something bad. What is important you learn to share your feelings. Common...........move on...........forget that girl........She doesn't want to work on the relationship........so let it be!!!!There are lots of girls in this planet worth to be loved. Wake up little boy...... that is just a little of what will be happening in the future. The best thing you can do " Go to the beach and shout!!!!!!!!! Enough is enough......I'm OK! I can have a GF which is prettier than her and smarter than her. You can do it!!!!!!!!
2007-02-06 05:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by Man_heater! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though you are angry with her, you should never have ask another gal to answer on your behalf. that will only make things worse because she might have the misconception that you are cheating on her or somthing. that's why she is so angry now to sent her younger sister to ask you to return all her belongings. maybe she have her own reasons for her trips. have u try to understand her reasons? i suggest that you talk to her about how u feel and most likely she will open up as well.
2007-02-06 05:58:13 · answer #3 · answered by rlsh07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has probably found another guy, or tired of you. Have a chatt with her, and find out for yourself.
The trust has gone!
Whatever the outcome, accept the reality and move on with or without her!
All the best!
2007-02-06 05:52:53 · answer #4 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is cheating on you (poor as well) just leave her there is still good girls left out there
2007-02-06 06:25:05 · answer #5 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps she need some space...give her time and try to talk things out over a cup of coffee...
2007-02-06 05:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by gnurbi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋