I am with this man of 41,I am 24 and I love him to bits,however I am on a college course in Cardiff, for the next 4 months and have been here for the last2 months,he says he is hands on and want sex all the time and as i am not there he has these 3 women he merely has sex with,I am down here carrying his baby,and he tells me as i know he is hands on and I do not give it to him for example go down the weekend and spend it only with him,he has these women and i confronted him about them,he knows it tears my soul apart. I already have a 4 year old,an dit would not be fair on trudging him up and down each weekend and anyway i can not afford it. I have not seen another man since being here and i like sex too but it is not right.
Its difeerent with him,he says, he has no job and according to him its all about me,i want him to give up these women but do not give him sex so why should he give up something he likes.I try and see him 4-5 hours when in london occasionally its not enough for him
2007-02-05 21:28:49 · 9 answers · asked by FLAVIA D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump the bloody sucker and get red off him. He is not worthy of your love or affection. He will carry on cheating on you even if you are around with him in London. If you continue with him, he can even bring to you deseases!
You are young, depandable and honest girl. You WILL get the right person for you if you keep on looking. Leave the old bugger and tell him that!
All the best!
2007-02-05 21:40:59 · answer #1 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy clearly doen't love you. And he is showing you signs of what your relationship with him will be like if you two do end up together. You are also setting a bad example to your son by letting this man treat you this way. You son will grow up thinking that what's good enough for my mother is good enough for any woman. I
m not condoning infedelity in any way but, a man who attempts to hide his extra marital affairs cares more about his wife's feelings than the man who is beyond open by telling her straight out...and what a fool of the woman who stays with the man who freely sticks his d*** in another woman beside the one he is supposed to be committed to.
He doesn't love you and you are acting out of desperation to stay with him. You know what it is that you need to do, you've always known....
2007-02-05 21:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You agreed to marry someone who don't love. Oh my god, what were you thinking? You need to break off that engagment immediatly! The result of a marriage where you do not love your husband will be nothing less than a disaster. You are being cruel to this man who proposed, leading him on and making him beleive you love him while you don't. Stop this stupid and cruel game and save both yourself and this man a lifetime of sorrow and regret.
2016-05-23 22:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are in a difficult situaution. If i were you, I would end it with him. Someone you love should be with only you, not three other women! and the fact that he cant keep it in his pants and be with you just shows that he isnt man enough to stay with one woman. You are young and seem to be a good person. You deserve a lot better in life and should be treated better. i wish the best of luck to you and your children :]
2007-02-05 21:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh come on now.....he just is collecting women, including you. He doesn't work, has three women that he is fooling around with not to mention you who is pregnant with his child. What are you thinking???? He is a lazy cheat that will never support you or your kids and he will never be faithful...move on with your life before he gives you some disease...good luck
2007-02-05 21:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a self-centered bum. Dump him. Your life is already messed up. Don't make it worse.
2007-02-05 21:38:20 · answer #6 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U joking, right?say u r,
2007-02-05 21:44:50 · answer #7 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a the joke of the Century.
Hei girl if there's any truth in wat u r saying (which i very much doubt) Then pls! pls! pls! DUMP HIM
2007-02-05 22:06:49 · answer #8 · answered by Naughty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUmp him he sounds like a loser , who dosnt love you!!!
2007-02-05 21:34:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋