please i need your help?

Question

i am in love for 2 years I consider my self a very nice girl , I have always been very kind and true girl, after 2 years relationship we decided to marry, we both from different nationality we live in same country his family need him to marry from his country, he did not accept there opinion , as he told me he want to live the remaining life with me I asked him to contact his family to agree about our marriage he promised to do that and I really waiting the result, suddenly I found a women number on his mobile the one working with him same company , I asked him to be honest with me but no way, I tried to talk the girl if there is a relation between them but the girl said no, my friends I am really shocked I am really honest with him we fight a lot and there is no any connection between as it is almost pass one week I really love him a lot and he use to said the same thin but I am not sure if his in love with me it is 2 years we have been together I love him a lot I feel may be he want to keep distance from me he told for my friends he loves me and he respect me a lot is he really honest man please help what I have to do he is not calling and I am the same thing and I am traveling for 3 weeks to another country should I leave with out say bye to him I think better to ignore him please I need your opinion I feel if he love me and he is interesting to he can comeback to me plessssssss I need your help

Answer 1

If I understand you correctly you two love each other but you found another girls number on his phone and this girl works with him. Could it just be there co worker friends. A man can have female friends just like you can have male friends without anything being physical. I think you are jumping the gun you came out and asked him and he has never given you reason in your relationship to doubt him before has he? if not and his track record is good then give him the benefit of the doubt. and trust him. If your having problems now Marriage won't help if you feel you can't trust him now. Also you mention you love him alot and he you, but why isn't he calling you then something is wrong here. If your not in a fight and you dont' know the reason. call him you said your leaving for 3 weeks he will be hurt if he doesnt' know your leaving and you just vanish on him no phone call no nothing. On the other hand if he knows you are leaving and he isn't calling you. then don't bother calling him. He's showing you how he feels by not picking up the phone. Your not that important. But without all the details from him and you I can't say do that until you know whats going on.. But definately give him a chance and trust him if you know he's a good guy.

Good luck

Answer 2

Let me get this straight: You found the phone number of a woman on his mobile phone, but she works for his company. She denied a relationship with him. So, maybe she just works with him: professionals do call each other. Is he trustworthy otherwise?

I think you should back off. If you press him for more, you won't make him love you. Either he loves you or he doesn't. Give him some time.

Fighting is bad. Are you fighting because you're accusing him of being unfaithful? I think you need more evidence than one phone call. You seem jealous, which implies to me that you're too young to be getting married. Give it a rest, wait a while.

Answer 3

i read ur Question twice .. hmm intersting .. the main thing i wuld like to mention is to have a number of a woman or a collegue in the mobile is not the big issue .. i have alot of numbers of my collegues kept in my mobile they are all known by my fiance .. but she never argued me .. coz she trust me . the major ingredient in love is to Trust the one u love :) so leave this type of minor issues .. because if you are being that much suspectious then it will be worst for both of your relations...

on the other hand you said how to check him, he loves u or not ..?? him simple make a new ID of hotmail or yahoo by a fake name add him and try to flirt with him .. but show urself that you belong to same country as he is from.. if he denied you and block and delete you then his love is true and if he show some interest then just kick the bad guy and choose the right one .. who is really interested to marry you no matter what the boundaries are ...

I had a 4 years love relation with my fiance and now after a lot of family complications we finally get married next month :) so be patient and avoid the things:)

Answer 4

I happen to have the numbers of many women in my company in my cell phone. It doesn't mean that I have anything other than a business relationship with them.

If you trust him this little, you're not ready to marry him.

Answer 5

you had better find out who this our women is he may not be honest with you i have been down that road and that do lie to you hope he not lie to you yes if he love you he will call you may God bless you