that they like us? I am the only one with this problem? Maybe because I have some abandonment issues from a previous relationship gone bad. I can't stand it if I call a guy and he doesn't call me back, if I write him a message and he doesn't get back to me soon enough - of course I don't convey this to him, but I get nervous that maybe he just doesn't like me anymore. What's wrong with me? Or are other women this way? How can I deal with this?
2007-02-05 20:32:52 · 5 answers · asked by happy c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lots of women do this and it's ANNOYING.
It's not cute.
Try to put a stop to it ASAP.
Even if you feel angst about a guy not calling you back don't let it show! ACT secure and confident, even if you don't feel it, and lo and behold, it starts to take hold!
Eventually you WILL feel more confident. And the guy will notice, And- I'll bet your phone will ring more often!
2007-02-05 20:39:16 · answer #1 · answered by Avsky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously quite young!
The way you deal with this, is 'NOT' deal with it!! When a guy doesn't respond to you when 'YOU' think he should, then you are beind 'very' unreasonable. You have no idea why he delays calling you...
And how in the **** can 'any' man know what you're thinking or feeling if you don't convey
these things to him...Or do you already know
that if you were to tell him how you feel he'd
probaly never show his face again..
Even guys like their girls to be honest, just a we like our men to be honest with us..
You will 'never' keep 'any' guy as long as you hold onto the past and live with all those fears you have. That kind of crap will destroy any
possibility of a good relationship...
Maybe you should try some counceling for a while..for yourself..
2007-02-05 21:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am the same way, you just have to figure out if you think you should trust the guy or not. it can be hard to tell. just wanted to let you know your not the only one with the problem.
2007-02-05 20:38:10 · answer #3 · answered by justa girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have d same problem coz of a bad heartache b4...think im paranoid of my bf leaving me...so wen we r arguing & he is not calling me, i feel hurt & thinking he might not love me anymore...but things will get better after sumtym & we'll be ok again...
girls love attention & time fr der bf s but guys also needs time for demselves...
2007-02-05 20:41:37 · answer #4 · answered by an_angel_in_d_sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of women are like this, and it drives us guys crazy. It's just insecurity and it's VERY unattractive.
2007-02-05 20:37:05 · answer #5 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋