he's rich, i'm not. we almost break off due to people around us keep talking about us as they are very curious with our this relationship. he shut off from me for 16days and finally on sunday i asked if we could patch up and i'll make sure no one talks about us and he says Sure, no worries. all i do is tell everyone around me that we had broke off. As we think that relationship is between the couples so no one should involve.so please tell me your opinion about tis relationship. Do you think he really love me or just that we both are old and need a partner. our age between 38-50.
2007-02-05 20:30:48 · 6 answers · asked by fairyangeladel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he cares enough for you yes that he is willing to get back with you and you care enough for him. sounds like your letting outside strangers rule your relationship.. You must cut out what other people think. or looks or stares. They are not in this relationship you and he are. and you can't please everyone nor should you care. If this man treats you well and he makees you happy and vise versa then continue. Good relationships are hard to come by to begin with and many people aren't happy so if you can find your happinesss with him thats a very special gift you have found.
Spend more time on developing your interests with him and he you and stop worrying about what others say. It only can bother you if you allow it to right?.
Enjoy your time together and be strong and proud of yourself and the man your with. Its you two in the relationship no one else and its what matters to the both of you not outsiders.
good luck
2007-02-05 21:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why make the first move of patching up things when he was the first one who shuts you off for 16 days? When a man can endure the pain of being separated from his beloved, that man doesn't love the lady that much. Moreover, telling you to keep your relationship a secret is a sign that he has something is his mind other than loving you faithfully. Why would a man hide a relationship that is so precious to him? You're even more than old enough to get married.
2007-02-06 04:44:58 · answer #2 · answered by Grace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're doubting and asking the he may be not doing enough to make you feel assured of his love for you. However sometimes it could just be on our mind. Love means compromises or risks, love always have uncertainties the world is full of it but if it's true love the happiness outweighs all the pain. If he treats you right.. you must begin trusting him. :-)
2007-02-06 04:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by terra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw what everyone else thinks. Listen to your heart and make sure that you both want the same things out of the relationship, otherwise it's never going to work. Do whatever makes you both happy.
2007-02-06 04:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, well the question here is do you love him. cz if out do or he do then who cares what ppl say. so what is he is rich or poor. its love we are talking here. if you love him and he loves who cares what others say. go with the flow.
2007-02-06 04:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by retiro c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of you believe that it'll work, IT"LL WORK. Whether or not he loves you, only you will know.
2007-02-06 04:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by scar04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋