i live in moldova very far from Itali , we met each other in Internet,i love him very much ,he says that he loves me also,but i am not sure that someone on his age can really love so strong,i think he will leave me soo. If you have some knowleges about this help me and tell me if very can be soething serious.
2007-02-05 20:29:37 · 6 answers · asked by vitaly p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A relationship with that much of an age difference is very, very difficult. You won't have much in common.
Because you met on the internet, you really know nothing about him. It's very easy for someone to fake a completely different personality on the internet. I'm concerned because you are very, very young.
A person who's 44 can love very strongly, but the fact that you don't know that is also troubling.
Since he's more than twice your age and lives far away, I think you should find someone close to your own age and nearby. However, if you really want to meet, have him visit you, and meet in a public place where people know where you're going. Arrange to check in with a friend by cell phone.
If he says he loves you but won't come to meet you, break it off. It means that he's been lying about himself (like maybe he's married), and he isn't the person he pretends to be.
2007-02-05 20:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, I am an italian man and I'm 34. I met my wife over internet 2 years ago and she is from Siberia in Russia.
Before getting married and talking about real love I went to visit her 3 times in moscow and the last time I went to know her relatives in siberia. She came to live with me in italy and to study but the real love came after one year of living together and sharing problems and knowing eachother better.
Just keep in mind that it will not be so easy.. Visa will not last forever.. and to get married to someone you know so few it's not a wise idea..
By the way both me and my wife are really happy about eachother now :)
Feel free to contact me if you need some advices.
Lorenzo
troubador@gmail.com
:)
2007-02-05 20:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by Lorenzo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 25 and she was 28, her living in Spain, me in New Jersey. I am typing from her computer. But 44 and he loves you. I would look at that as a warning signal. I mean, you never know, maybe he does love you. But sorry to be honest, I don´t think you are going to get what you are looking for.
2007-02-05 20:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by nassim420 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get to know each other before you can decide. My 20 year old wife is from Russia and I am a 54 year old Australian. What makes you think that you have problems? It can work if you know each other, can become friends and want to make it work. Just don't rush too much because you have age difference, culture difference, language difference and lots more to work your way through.
2007-02-05 20:41:27 · answer #4 · answered by John B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find a boy your own age where you live. Get to know him, in person and fall in love.
You cannot fall in love with anyone on line! You have no idea who this person is... he could be telling you anything and there is no way for you to know. just forget about him!
2007-02-05 20:34:06 · answer #5 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe a holiday (with your friends) to Italy is in order... meet him and see what happens...
2007-02-05 20:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋