My two cloest friends in the world have been together for a long time and are currently going through a bad patch, but when he confined in me about what was going on a alarm went off in my head. Could this really be true.He told me that she has been very off with him and has been talking to one of his friends allot. I've tryed t tell him to talk to her but he said he has.
I love the two of them allot, there like family but i'm not sure if i should tell him that she does fancy this other guy but that she loves him to much. i know she would never do anything behind his back.
but still somehow i feel like if i don't it will come back to haunt me.
Should i tell the truth or should i stay quite and just listen.
2007-02-05 20:26:54 · 15 answers · asked by Lynda27 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say be a good friend to both of them. If someone has confided in you you can't betray them. If you did tell and nothing came of it then you would probably get the blame as people like to shoot the messenger, if you know what I mean. If the girl does break his heart and do something with the other guy then all you can do is be there for him. If she doesn't then no harm done. Everyone has feelings for other people even when they are attached but most do nothing about it it's normal. Honestly I would not interfere, just be a good friend to both of them and be a good listener. Hope it all turns out ok.
2007-02-05 20:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by missieclass 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you say something you'll have hassle and upset and if you don't it may come back to haunt you but definitely a safer bet to stay quiet and let them sort out their own lives. It is hard being stuck in the middle like that. I've been there but better to try and keep out of it.
2007-02-06 04:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you start talking to either one of them about their problems you'll lose both in the end.
Stay out of it!
There is nothing you could say or do that would help in this situation.
Both sides are confiding in you. Therefore, you must keep your mouth closed, or risk losing both of them as friends.
2007-02-06 04:36:08 · answer #3 · answered by Avsky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really you should stay out of it, as much as you can. If you know something, it would be one thing. But you are only guessing and you might make things worst. And if you think your about to find out something, stop either one from telling you. you may lose one or both of them, as a friend.
2007-02-06 04:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are as good friends as you say and you really want to help them try taking them places and go early so they are spending time together doing different things - it depends on how much you want to help but if he says he has disscused the other man wither her just reassure him if your sure she isn't cheating and leave the rest with them
2007-02-06 04:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by Soul Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont tell anything ...they will find the solution and also they have to go throu this on their own
u might be their best friend but this is none of ur business
sometimes we have to stay silent even thou we feel sad about
2007-02-06 05:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're friends with both, if i were you, I'll back off. I'll tell her that I love both of them and that's why I think she should be honest with him soonest possible. I don't think you should be the one telling him about this.
2007-02-06 04:32:54 · answer #7 · answered by scar04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are sure that she wont do anything behind his back then you should stay quite. at least you have a reason to stay quite and it will not come back to haunt you.
2007-02-06 04:33:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mum is the word. That is how you remain friends with both of them.
2007-02-06 04:34:15 · answer #9 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let them get on with it. either way you cant win, just don't interfere tho coz thats the worse thing to do.x
2007-02-06 04:31:22 · answer #10 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋