I have an on-line boyfriend in California and he says he is gonna get me there in no time. He says he fell in love with my picture. Do you think he is telling the truth because he says he is now on the process of furnishing my fiance visa. Someone please help me figure out.
2007-02-05 20:24:39 · 23 answers · asked by Marge 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it will take sumtime...
better if u tell him to go to ur place dan u go to his place...:-) & spend time with u der so u can get to know him more...
i had d same experience, online bf & stuff, after more dan 1 yr of just emails/chats/calls/sms, he came to my country to meet me. i got to know him more in real & luckily, he's a nice guy & he loves me a lot & likewise.
2007-02-05 20:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by an_angel_in_d_sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can furnish you with a visa..
That comes strictly from the government.
He may be able to get you some forms, but
again, those are also government property.
You can download some of those forms, but in the end it is 'YOUR' signature that has to be on the papers. Aquiring a visa means you have to answer a lot of personal questions about you and your family, and the reason for the visa.
It sounds like he may be playing you girl...
If he's a magician then give him a couple of weeks and see if your visa arrives, when it doesn't you'll have your answer!!
2007-02-06 04:32:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A visa is only applicable when you flying into the USA from another country. A visa application should be done by the person who needs it an not by anyone else so I think he is lying about that. The in-love thing Im not too sure of. I met my husband in a yahoo chat room but we interacted for over a year before meeting and marrying. In that time he made all legal paths available to me so that I can do background checks etc on him to see if he is legal or not or has a criminal record or not. If your b/f refuses you to access his records then he has something to hide and I would say break up then.
2007-02-06 04:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's lying. You can't love someone you haven't met. Who knows how many online women he's done this to? He must of said this to hundreds of beautiful women who sent their picture. The man is desperate and wants to use you. He knows you're in a diff. country and who knows what he has in mind, maybe kill you? You can't trust online people. And lets say you do move down there what if things don't work out, he'll just kick you out the house and you'll have no where to turn. Why can't he move to you? Do you even know what this guy looks like? He's probably some 90 yr. old stalker on a walker typing to you with his elbows using someone else's picture.
You don't need to find a decent guy online, go out and meet new people...it'll come naturally. Online men are no good, why do you think they have to be online to meet a girl? Do you know how easy it is for a man to meet a girl..females usually just throw themselves at men so he must be really ugly or has some issues that women can't put up with. The right guy will come along for you, it takes time. Many women a year die from meeting guys they "thought they knew" just by talking to them behind some screen. Meanwhile, put his e-mail on block and his screen name on ignore. Good luck & be safe!
2007-02-06 04:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Q & A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea what you look like but I live in california and there are so many beautiful girls here. Don’t take this and there are so many beautiful girls here. Don’t take this the wrong way but I really don’t see why a man would go out of state to find a girlfriend maybe he just likes to have a for sure person to have cyber sex with. The only way in which I would maybe believe him its if he’s very young, sexually inexperienced or if he has low self teem I suggest you don’t take him to serious and don’t get feeling involved that way he cant disappoint you or hurt you.
2007-02-06 05:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO he could be a killer! Haven't you heard about all of the wemon who die each year by meeting people they have met online? Do not believe him! He may think you are pretty and everything but you may be an easy target because you are from another country and nobody knows you in California so you will not be able to go anywhere! People are crazy nowdays and the only way he could fall in love with you is by knowing your heart not your picture! Think about this very seriously before you decide to do anything! I mean pray about it long and hard! Please be careful!!
2007-02-06 04:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by sasy_tabby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have no idea who he is! My god... do people not know better than this yet? He could be saying anything to get you here and you never know what he will do! He could be some psycho killer or rapist! Seriously! Don't go live with this guy and don't trust him! All of that aside, the notion of falling in love with someone picture is ridiculous!
2007-02-06 04:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have the two of you been talking? Ask for pictures and stuff like that. If you're thinking about moving there, you should have proof of what you're gonna be living in and where you're going to be living. I honestly wouldn't recommend moving there. That's kinda scary, seeing as though yall have never met and whatnot. Maybe meet up first, before jumping down to Cali and changing your whole entire life.
2007-02-06 04:29:10 · answer #8 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i am in the same situation like you...he says that he loves me ..and he also gives me money to come to him...but first of all you should spend some time with him chating(at least2 months)and then you will descover alot about him ,,and you may descover something that you will regret in the future,,,don't hurry to go so quickly to him...who knows if he really loves you..or he maybe has other intentions....i will chat with my love and after i will see that he really cares about me i will go there,you should check him,and the best variant is to talk more with him....be carrefull.
2007-02-06 04:39:01 · answer #9 · answered by vitaly p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marge! The Panel has spoken, You might wanna stay clear of this Guy. If you're wanting to Come to America. There's other ways of doing it.
2007-02-06 04:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋