I am confused. I am single and dating a girl, who is in a relation, but her bf is living in another country. (dont know if i can call it dating. we go clubbing, movies, and just a walk etc.) We talk about anything. she even comes to my place and watch movies with me. I never tried to kiss her, even if i wanted, coz i know she is in a relationship. And she mention that if she was single, she would have liked me. Actually someone please advice me, what she is expecting.
2007-02-05 20:09:57 · 13 answers · asked by master J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"I am single and dating a girl"
Doesn't make much sense.
But anyhow, seems to me like she is using you as a back-up source in case her boyfriend dumps her...she can still have you around.
I suggest you end contact with her because you'll only end up liking her more and building more feelings towards her...She likes the attention you're giving her so leave her now before you get emotionally attached. Good luck!
2007-02-05 20:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Q & A 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
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2014-05-30 17:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure if I would call it dating. I would consider yourself a male version of her best girlfriend. I wouldn't expect she wants anything more than a good friend and it sounds like you are a really great fit. Even if she wants more, put yourself in the long-distance BF's shoes and ask yourself if you would want someone pursuing your girlfriend if you were living overseas. Also, if things don't happen to work out, as long-distance relationships sometimes do, you can be the confidant she turns to wipe away her tears. A friendship is a good foundation for a relationship, but even if it doesn't occur, cherish what you have.
2007-02-06 04:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well has she made any moves yet? If she hasn't she might just want to be friends. All the things you say you do with her are just things girls do with friends. If you really have feelings for her and think it won't ruin your friendship just ask her. Tell her straight out, "i know you are in a realtionship but you are really growing on me.." She will take it from there. One thing I recommend is to ask her, in a calm public place like a restaurant. Because if you ask her when your at home she might think you want to "come on" to her, and if you tell her in a club she might think you are tipsy LOL. So ask her at a restaurant or when you are out for your walks =) Good luck
2007-02-06 04:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by Christy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that she said she would like you if she was not in a relationship means she does like you, otherwise she would not have said that! She is spending a lot of time with you too which she probably doesn't tell her boyfriend about because she likes you, but she is obviously too scared to do anything with you. Getting with her might get you into hot water though, so be cautious! Good luck :-)
2007-02-06 04:15:21 · answer #5 · answered by Motti _Shish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she is expecting you to be her best guy friend and there is nothing wrong with that. You seem to be a real gentleman by not trying to kiss her or make moves on her. She knows you respect her enough not to do those things. She feels safe and secure around you. Just be you. She likes that.
2007-02-06 04:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by sasy_tabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she necessarily EXPECTS anything from you but It sounds like she is hoping you will give her a reason to not want to "be in a relationship" anymore.
2007-02-06 04:16:40 · answer #7 · answered by naytores 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's getting companionship from you that she can't get from her BF. Basically, she's using you and you have no hope of turning this into a real relationship. If this isn't ok with you, now's the time to speak up.
2007-02-06 04:14:19 · answer #8 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends on how she's acting, is she flirting with you? If she's flirting with you and giving you signs then she definitely likes you, but (If i were in your position i would not take it any farther than friendship until she breaks it off with her bf, thats just not nice.)
2007-02-06 04:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by Rae-Rae Nikkoles <3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is using you. Just tell her to leave you alone! Dont settle to be her part time recreation man!You could be spending that time with someone who actually wants to devlope a relationship with you.
2007-02-06 04:14:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋