we broke up a week ago, she said she doesn't want to be in a relationship, should i get her a valentines card to let her know that i still love her?
2007-02-05 19:47:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you still love her you could do anything you feel like to let her know that whether it is by telling her or sending her a valentines card! Speak to her and see how she feels. Do you know why she broke up with you? Maybe find out what the reason was and if it could change. If she broke up with you over another guy, forget about her! She will go for that guy and when something goes wrong there she will run back to you as a second resort! But if you still love her and you think you still have a chance-go for it! Good luck :-)
2007-02-05 20:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by Motti _Shish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear me. That's a toughie. My instinct would be to say no, don't send her anything. But depending on the nature of your relationship, perhaps a card might not be a bad idea. If you were serious about one another, and you are adults, and you are certain that you love her and want to try to make it work in the long term, I would say find a nice card, not too sappy, and write something like "I miss you and hope you are well."
If she responds, great! If not (and she might not) then I would say let it ride for a bit until the next special day, like her birthday, or if nothing is coming up soon, then wait several weeks and send a friendly note or card. Nothing romantic. The idea is to let her know you still care and want to work things out without putting pressure on her.
If the breakup was especially bad (for instance, because you cheated on her) then you might well be out of luck. But if it was a breakup over a misunderstanding, she might be having second thoughts too and this is a good way to leave the door open.
2007-02-05 19:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Women Always want what they cannot have. So play it cool. She broke up, not you. So let it be over. Her choice. But don't be doormat or spend your hard earned dollars on her right now. Wait it out and see. It is, however, a perfect occasion to give a new love interest a valentine to show you would like to be more than friends. Sorry. That's probably not the answer you were looking for.
ps.. Happy Valentines.
2007-02-05 19:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a "friend' valentines card stating that you're willing to wait and you still care, or send nothing at all. If you send one that states Love and it is mushy, you'll push her away even further. Sit down, talk with her... does she not want a relationship, or does she not want a relationship with you. *Please, I'm not being mean, but a lot of people get their heart broken waiting for someone who doesn't want them in the same way.* Good luck to you and God bless you.
2007-02-05 19:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by Just me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely not. That's probably the worst thing you could do. That says "I'm your doormat and even though you don't want to be with me, I'm not over you. So don't worry, I'm not going anywhere." Buy your mom a Valentines card instead or send me one, but whatever you do, don't send one to your ex!
2007-02-05 19:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think there is still a chance then I would send her one. But there is a reason you broke up. Why don't you call her maybe a day or two in advance to see how she feels.
2007-02-05 19:52:21 · answer #6 · answered by pussnboots333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do not give her a valentine. Move on, there are plenty of other girls out there. Anyway, she may show interest in you if she sees you with another girl. You always want what you can't get.
2007-02-05 19:52:59 · answer #7 · answered by Miss K J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that all depends on how you 2 broke up. If it was a mutual break up then yeah but if it was a hurtful break up then no. It will only make matters worse. Give her time to calm down.
2007-02-05 19:51:15 · answer #8 · answered by sasy_tabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
valentines day is all about love. if you still love her then send one. that's the point bro. then if not, send her a greeting card.
2007-02-05 20:06:06 · answer #9 · answered by eDREAMS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her you can send it but it better don't send it..let you and your girlfriend think about your friendship and why it broke up...may be you can solve problem and have good friendship again
2007-02-05 20:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by mmm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋