I met this guy and we started dating. Within the first few days of getting to know each other he was coming on a little too strong...asking me if I wanted to go with him to his parent's house in another state over the weekend and offering to drop everything to drive to my house (which was a two hour drive for him) just to bring me dinner. Plus he was making long term plans like we had known each other forever. I wasn't sure if I should take that as crazy stalker or just someone who REALLY liked me. Anyways, when we had our second date, I just felt he was way to "touchy feely" trying to make out with me and hold my hand constantly. This was only the second time we met, so again, I felt he was coming on too strong. I told him we should slow things down and he turned into a completly idfferent person. He started acting like a big jerk and then finally just stopped talking to me. My intuition told me he was just being fake from the beginning, trying way too hard to get laid.
2007-02-05 19:43:12 · 6 answers · asked by Ms. M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess I just want to hear what other people think of this? Was I right to be suspicious?
2007-02-05 19:43:49 · update #1
Creepy behavior indeed.
Although i dont think that all he was trying to, was to get laid.
Emotionally immature yes.
I think you hurt his feelings, which is why he acted like a jerk and stopped talking to you when you told him to slow things down.
Guys who just wants sex wont introduce you to his family at all.
Nor will they stop persuing when you tell them to slow down after date nr 2.
Your intuition is not totally wrong. Something is very wrong with this guy for him to move so fast. either unstable or immature imotionally
2007-02-05 20:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yep...you were right to get rid of him. I thought of the same thing as you thought of ... he was only after to get some. That was really immature of him to change his attitude 180 degrees just because he didn't get what he wanted. That reminds me of a 5 year old kid who doesn't get a toy that he wants. If he really did like you he would consider your feelings. You didn't loose anything speacial so don't waste anymore time on that jerk. As they say, "there's plenty of other fish in the sea".
2007-02-05 20:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by cassie86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you were right becaus, alot of guys are like that. I mean its way to fast and, not right to do that to a girl. I hope you never speak to him again people should know better! I wouldn't do that and no guy should but alot of other guys are creeps.
2007-02-05 19:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by unknown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was completely immature and juvenile. He proved it even more by reacting the way he did. You did the right thing.
2007-02-05 19:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by skidrowdan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your intuition is usually dead on! I think he was weird and you did the right thing!
2007-02-05 20:14:55 · answer #5 · answered by simpsonwd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think you were right...he only had one thing on his mind.....(and you know what that was!)
2007-02-05 19:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋