I know this guy and my mother and his mother work together. I know that he likes me but I don't. This guy is really sensitive. Last time we were at a party and there was my friend (girl). I went over to talk to her. The next day we were suppose to go out and he didn't come. I foned him and he told me that he was jealous cauz I talked to my friend. I can't just tell him not to go out with me anymore as our parents arranged for us. Sometimes I give my mother a hint that I don't like him but I don't think she gets it. Some help plz.
2007-02-05 19:39:28 · 11 answers · asked by xxxrachelxxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell it to your mom. its better if she knows. and its better if your open with her. your mom's not a psychic to know how you feel. she might be misinterpreting you. she will understand because she is a mom.
2007-02-05 19:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by Princess Shai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just got to tell them like it is. I know it is hard cause your family is pressuring you. But him getting jealous over a girlfriend. What else will he get jealous over? That sounds like the start of a controlling relationship. I don't think that your family would want you to be forced into that unintentionally.
2007-02-06 03:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by amoritaspice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on your relationship with your mom. Talk to her about it, dont drop hints or make quick remarks. When she is not pre-occupied with something then ask her to set aside some time to talk.
Mothers love playing matchmakers for their sons and daughters
just stand up for yourself and tell her that you are perfectly capable of find your own friends
2007-02-06 06:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buddy don't hesitate, be open with ur mom...
just explain ur disliking on him and also why????
rush do not be slow in all these... incase if you have a problem to convey with your mother.. just seek ur help from ur brothers or sis...
be positive.... things will happen as per ur wish....
2007-02-06 03:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by Racingred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for a date and explain to him u dun like him and it ur parents that forced. say that u and him can be mutual frenz
2007-02-06 03:43:52 · answer #5 · answered by dramaqueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date him for a bit, then tell him you're in love with his best friend and you're moving to europe because they're so sexually liberated there, i think he'll get the picture
2007-02-06 03:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by Dick B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be upfront and tell both ur mom n tat dude that u dun like it, and btw how old are u? Wat is this with parents arranging, marriage?? Geez...what world are we living in.
2007-02-06 03:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it and clear it out with him, tell him how you feel, it will be ok dont worry
2007-02-06 03:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by gone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom that you think he's a loser. Start there.
2007-02-06 03:46:09 · answer #9 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's simple,just lock urself in ur room everday n don't bother him.
2007-02-06 03:44:44 · answer #10 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋