well, i know its mission immpossible when i rejected her friendship and told her i will never give up. seriously i regreted!
but i know its too late. now tt i wanted to be a friend, she kinda find me annoying and ignore me. she's the only girl that had cause fatal mental break-down to me!
is leaving her alone and wishing her all the best, while liking her stupid?
do things for her, and ask others to hand it to her?
what can i do?
continue being stupid? or should i just lead her annoying towards me to hatred? or what?
2007-02-05 19:23:36 · 9 answers · asked by continue waiting? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lol first of all if it was a fatal mental break down you wouldn't be asking this question simply because you would be FATALLY DEAD lol .
With that out of the way, you are aware that there are anti
stalking laws in place, are you not?
Best thing to do is to write her a heartfelt and sincere letter
telling her how sorry you are for the way you acted and that you will not bother her anymore. Tell her how you will treasure always the times you spent together and that you are a better person today for having known her and
how there will always be a special place in your heart for her. Wish her well in what ever she does in life. Then give it to her and let her be . Who knows she might even pleasantly surprise you.
2007-02-05 19:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by daizzddre 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone and let her come to you, she knows you like her and if she doesn't like you then she isn't going to like you if you hound her like that. If she doesn't come to you then would you want to be with a girl like that anyways? Wouldn't you rather a girl who will take care of you and you will feel comfortable around rather than a girl you're always out to impress? It could cost less too in the long run to leave her alone, and maybe she has some issues in HER life that are making her act like that!
2007-02-05 19:27:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
leaving her alone and wishing her all the best, while liking her is not stupid, not a bad idea, the best you can do for now
... and the most pathetic thing you can do with your life.
Leave her alone for good.
Tomorrow. I suggest you look around.
Big ocean. Lots of fish.
2007-02-05 19:29:00 · answer #3 · answered by Niknok 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My question is why would you want to be around someone who obviously doesn't want you around? She apparently isn't changing her mind about you. I say don't waste your time on her. Trust me, there are plenty of other girls who are just as wonderful as her and who are going to think you are wonderful, too. Also don't try so hard, you don't want someone liking you or being with you because you do things for them. That is being used, rather allowing yourself to be used.
Could it be that you only want her because she does not want you?
2007-02-05 19:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by simpsonwd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn to give up. Then there is that B.S. about if you love something let it go if it comes back it was meant to be. Blah blah blah… ignoring her just might work. If you don’t believe me ask a chic.
2007-02-05 19:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) she has to think that you're doing well without her.
2) let her go away for a few weeks... don't even talk to her, but answer if she talks to you.
3) after a few weeks, if you're still interresed in becoming her friend, make a move !
Good luck !
2007-02-06 07:37:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you just have to let her go...you can't force a girl to like you, you know...i mean, she's already showing you that she doesn't like you, so why do stay stupid? if she can't appreciate someone like you, let her go..there's still a lot of girls there willing to love you...
i know how hard it is to just let go of someone especially if you're already feeling something special about her...but if she doesn't like you, forget about her! i know in time, she'll come to realize how foolish she was to ignore you...or maybe something better would come in your way...ehem!
lay (n_n)
2007-02-05 19:34:43 · answer #7 · answered by lay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really dont know maybe write her a letter telling her how you feel maybe she will holla bk worth a go the only way she may listen if not give it up you will find someone else
2007-02-05 19:27:44 · answer #8 · answered by tootytoon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is just a hard habbit to break.. but this is the golden rule, ignore them adn they will come running to you, follow them and you are nothing.. good luck
2007-02-05 19:26:30 · answer #9 · answered by gone 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋