my son embarrasses my teenage daughter with her first bra?

Question

he is younger and keep pulling her bra ,making fun of her new body calls her nasty names or yesterday when I was not around he and his friend played punch and pull the "jelly" with poor girl... they go to same school... I'm afraid he embarrasses her there... we talked to him but hubby told him if he ever touches his sister he'll take off his belt and dicipline him...you think it might work?

Answer 1

Yes, u have warned him sufficient, and if he persists, a good discipline may just do the trick. The saying still holds good 'spare the rod and spoil the child'. I only hope hubby knows how to use the belt properly.

Answer 2

Give him a permanent punishment because hitting him will only stop him for a while. I say not just tell, but enforce the punishment of if he touches her bra, then take away his game system and never get him another game system again. Or embarass him by making him wear a bra on the outside of his clothes and take him to school and to his first class to enforce that everyone sees it in the morning. Do this and enforce all your punishments whether he or his friends taunt her and he will remember not to touch a girls bra until he is dating one.

Answer 3

belting the poor child will not work. just have your husband sit down with him and talk about respecting women and girls. It depends on how old your son is, if he is from the ages of 5-9 he might embarass your daughter, but any other age he will know not to say it in public, embarrising a sister also makes it's way down to you!

Answer 4

I'd say he's lucky she hasn't already decked him. For him AND his friend to be doing this is a bit worrisome - two on one is not fair odds, and a good way to make her feel scared of her sexuality; if they're grabbing her breasts, then a good hiding may be necessary to prevent even worse violations in the future.

To even the score a little bit, maybe it's time for dad to rather PUBLICLY take Junior to the sporting goods store for his first athletic cup/jock strap (even if he doesn't NEED one yet). Make sure it's a REALLY ugly one, and make sure that it's washed and hung out to dry in a very public way (after all, you wouldn't want those delicate, er, body parts to be irritated by fabric sizing or chemicals, right???), so as to make Junior think twice before harassing his sister again. ;-)

Answer 5

you need to punish and punish hard. No friends over until he can respect his sister. Explain how soon he will begin to have wet dreams and his sister can always get revenge on him which the more he angers her the more she will want that revenge. A girl is easily embarrassed by her changing body and you need to stop his harrassment

Answer 6

It might. Have dad tell him he's going to let sis beat the crap out of him and watch to make sure he takes his punishment like a man and just stands there and lets her do it if he does it again. This worked for my son when he did similar things to his older sis.

Answer 7

He's your child you should know what works best when disciplining him. Keep in mind he will always pick on his sister that's what siblings do, but you can curb the severity of that teasing.

Answer 8

tell him to respect his sister or you will beat him up,
boys will be boys .but they must not embarras family members in public .apeal to his sense of honour
if that does not work
teach him a sense of honour and give him a good wack around the ears.

Answer 9

hmmm... belt or psychologist..... well, I think I would go with the belt. 1. doesn't cost a bundle, and 2. actually works.

Answer 10

I think it will work for awhile but then after a week or so he will start acting up again.. he'll think you'll forget