I am married to a very bad muslim man. He says he hates his children and I and has never bought me or the children what we need. My job only allows me to buy them clothing and food. I can't even afford an abaya for myself. I can't afford anything for myself. I want to save up money to divorce him, but it's almost impossible. He has called my mother telling her that I am a raging alcoholic and have had many abortions but this is a lie. He knows he is lying but won't stop. My mother knows he is lying but is helpless to do anything. I know as a muslim woman I must cover. So where can I get a free abaya because I can't afford one and he refuses to be an honorable muslim male. He also does get drunk every night. I refuse to drink alcohol. I also ask what can I do about him? He's gotten physical with me in the past but not recenlty since he started suspecting me of cheating (I would never do that), but before he wouldn't think twice.
2007-02-05 19:02:11 · 7 answers · asked by Flu Fighter 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I'm serious, not a troll. This really is a problem. I'm asking for advice.
2007-02-05 19:34:15 · update #1
Go to a masjid, discuss this with other muslim woman there, tell the Imam or something.
2007-02-05 19:12:52 · answer #1 · answered by Adia Azrael 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Free Abaya
2016-10-31 14:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I know as a muslim woman i must cover" why do you say so? your problem is with your husband.Having an abaya will not solve your problem.will it? Don't think your Abaya is the only solution. Don't try to do things because the people around you are doing them. Your only dream in this world cannot be to wear that hectic dress.Just think about it.Try to consult a good psychologist and get some help.You can contact me through nadeesha_ekanayaka@yahoo.com
2007-02-05 19:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by Nad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want an answer I'm laughing all the way. You must think I'm gullible. I still think the same. This time I will not be nice. It's your business if you want to stay in a situation like that all over an albaya, but I were you I'd get the hell out first and worry about the albaya later. Use your brain! There's nothing worse than a stupid woman who really knows better and has chosen to be stupid!
2007-02-05 19:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen >>> maybe your husband isn't treating u good ,, but that not because of he is muslim .... maybe he is not understanding the real meaning of Islam .. islam is not telling u as a woman just to stay at home and take care of children ... islam has valued women .. islam doesn't mean that u shouldn't go out and work and have fun .. and all these kind of stuff ....
try to read books about Islam and to give him advices
if u have any probem please feel free to e mail me .. I will be always there
2007-02-05 19:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get in touch with me, i will try to be of help to you as much as I can. Wishing you a life of dignity, honour and pride. All the best. Take care Sunshine.
2016-03-18 01:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you some troll trying to bash a religion?
2007-02-05 19:24:11 · answer #7 · answered by BMW M5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋