How do you retain sanity? What made you decide you had to have another child? When you made your decision, what influenced you? Lastly, do you ever regret having "too many" children? (As someone with no children and seeing how few well behaved kids, there are out there, I'm curious.)
2007-02-05 17:37:31 · 6 answers · asked by nunya 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
We had 4 children each is happy doing what they wan.t Today number 12 grandchild was born we are rich we have a life they all call me by my name.
2007-02-05 17:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have no children yet, but I do have thoughts. I think you won't retain sanity if you had more than 2 children. And as for the third child, maybe that person can be the leader, haha
2007-02-06 01:47:27 · answer #2 · answered by content315 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not seem like it but if you are a mother of two, trust me you will have enough sanity and love to share with one more. In my case, I have three children, It was harder for me to go from one child to two than it was to go from two to three. You will find that you actually have more patience for the third child or atleast i did. I had two boys and wanted a girl, after lots of thought about whether or not i had enough love and patience for a third child we did it and it was the best thing for us. I don't think of it as did I have too many children, I tend to think of the three wonderful blessings God has given me. Behavior is all about parenting. My children are not the best behaved by no means, but they are behaved enough that I can and do take them out regularly. The main thing to remember about behavior is consistency. If your parenting is consistent their behavior tends to be more consistent.
2007-02-06 01:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by okie_goddezz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a mother of 3 i am very happy, is not a perfect picture 24/7, but is worth it. before getting married i wanted at least 6 kids, but things happened , and now i think if God blesses me with one more I'll be the happiest woman on earth. I love children, i guess God made me to love them because i really wanted 10. Now parenting, it's hard but not impossible. just raise them your way early , don't wait 'til they are 3 yrs old. show them love, patience, but also show them that you are the parent and they are the children. don't let them boss you around, and start that since the first day they come to this world. good luck! the only inspiration i needed was love, I loved being pregnant since the first one. I loved being a mother, i love to have 1 more
2007-02-06 02:38:16 · answer #4 · answered by babyface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have 4 kids
i come from a big family I'm the 11 of 14 it was just normal to have many and i love them all and after you have 2 it adds nothing to your day to add one more then another at times it can be greatly stressful but if you train the well and there well behaved its easy i could take my kids out to eat and they would get free desert for being so well behaved
2007-02-06 04:22:47 · answer #5 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im to crazy to go insane.I love children.Nothing influenced me except my love for kids.Never regreted having any of my kids.I have 6 wonderful boys.Is there something I should regret?
2007-02-06 01:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by darlene100568 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋