We were talking to each other from long time. One night she was sounding rude and she said she dont want to talk to me except if I have any thing very particular to discuss and she stops talking. I doubt it is because of her family pressure she did so. But, now if still I follow her it will hurt my self respect. I didnt called her from that day, but I am missing her. I love her and does not want to loose her for any chance. However I expressed my feelings of love and care for her many time but I never proposed her as I am waiting for a proper time to come. We both are career oriented. She was struglling for her first break from long time but it was because of me recently she have got it and she was very happy. Either I have been used and thrown by her or she is after some one else. She never said any thing about her's feelings for me except her eyes says that she also likes me.
2007-02-05 17:31:35 · 7 answers · asked by vdewal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1.forget her..........
2007-02-05 17:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you knew her for only a short time, it's probably over. She has moved on.
If you knew her for a long time, she might have gotten bored and tired of the same routine.
You might find out how she really feels by calling her with something specific. Try inviting her to go to a play or a symphony. Find something that is out-of-ordinary to do. Go to the park to feed the ducks or the pigeons. Find something new and stimulating.
What kind of family pressure? Present yourself dressed well to meet her at the door with a flower. That would change the family's opinion of you.
Good Luck
CF
2007-02-05 17:43:01 · answer #2 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just give her a week or two to calm down and re-assess her feelings and thoughts, then call her and ask her what's up?. If you keep calling and trying to contact her it will probably push her further away from you
2007-02-05 17:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by Acid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesnt like u. she said she doesnt want to talk to u unless you have something in particular to discuss. in other words, quit bugging her !
2007-02-05 17:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sou nd like she looking at moving on and she trying not to
hurt you. but i would just gve her the space that she need.
when she ready to talk she will . dont sweat her about it
just let it go. and look else where, it really sound like she might
have someone else.
2007-02-05 17:50:55 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she might have found someone and she does not want to hurt you..
2007-02-05 17:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back
2007-02-05 17:34:34 · answer #7 · answered by Teresa S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋