Thinking I may be developing an infatuation with my ex-girlfriend's (who is still my best friend) best friend. We connect better on different subjects than my ex. Worth a try or forbidden territory? It's more emotional/personality rather than physical.
2007-02-05 17:24:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its imposible for you to be in a happy relationship with you ex's best friend because for one, you are still talking to your ex girlfriend on the regular and two, you could come between them as friends. Girls have a unwirttin rule that they do not mess with their best friends ex...even though some girls completely disregard that rule. But you will be isolating your ex from you and her best friend.
2007-02-05 17:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by pan2fly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-18 19:44:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You remind me of my brother. My brother had never have a girlfriend for 7 years just because he was waiting for her best friend's girlfriend. His best friend would tell him to not date his girlfriend because he knew my brother likes her. He didn't and now he is more regret than ever. I really suggest you to break up with your girlfriend, you won't be happy with her so why not just leave each other? However, don't just go straight and confess to the girl you like, wait a while first. Because she will not get used to it and she will think you're a cheater since you like her when you're being with your girlfriend, at least that's what i think. Just wait a while after you guys breakup, 1. your girlfriend won't think you're a cheater 2. you and the one you like can have more time to develop a closer relationship and maybe later you can confess to her so she's more comfortable with it since you and your current girlfriend already broke up for a while. Good luck (:
2016-05-23 22:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your still friends with your ex maybe you should ask her how she would feel if you asked her friend out.Some people are fine if you go out with there ex friends and other aren't . It also depends on how long you haven't been together. If you think that you would hurt both of them with there friend ship I'd leave it a lone if you don't think it would hurt them then say some thing.
2007-02-05 17:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sucks to be you. I mean, if you go for it, I'd say you kinda have to talk to your ex first. Say that you're really interested in her and ask if it's OK. If she's no longer your best friend, it's probably OK, but then you also have to know that she's gonna talk smack about you all the time.
Even if you're still best friends, she will probably talk smack about you.
2007-02-05 17:29:20 · answer #5 · answered by Jaremy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same exact problem, except for the fact that my ex wasnt my bestfriend lol, But I started hanging out with one of her best friend(my g/f now), and It has worked out wonderfully, Valentine's Day will be 3 months for us and It has been the best relationship I have every had.
2007-02-05 17:35:02 · answer #6 · answered by Stumpy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-04-29 18:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.. Don't do it! It things don't work out, two different friendships will perish..
2007-02-05 17:28:12 · answer #8 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!!! If you have ANY RESPECT for your ex-girlfriend, then find another girl to "connect" with! That's the only "respectful" thing to do.
2007-02-05 17:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is forbidden territory. but talk to ur best friend &find out how she feels about that.
2007-02-05 18:30:21 · answer #10 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋