wve been going out for 2 months 2 weeks we love each other and so comfotable around each other,today when i got to school i saw my gf crying i thought she had gotten into a fight, but i was wrong...she had came up on my and hugged me and her friend was their but then she left, my gf had told me that her parents found out and now she wont have her "15" because they found out...She told me that her mom wanted to talk to me at lunch, and that she said ima going to have to wait till shes 16, well at lunch me and my gf went to the mainoffice and her mom was their, she had told me it was okay for her to have me as a bf and to take good care of her and everything but to not mess around with her, and she said she was going to try to convice her husband because he is MAD, and her mom told her she had to choose the "15" or me and she choose me so now ifeel bad because a "15" is a girls most preciose time in her life... what should i do? i dont know what her dad will say but her mom iscool withus
2007-02-05 17:15:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So, if you're talking about a "15" being a "quincenera", then it's pretty understandable for her parents to be upset. Do you know what a "quincenera" means to a family!? For those of you who don't, a "quincenera" is a elite party that a parent gives their daughter because she turns 15 years old. It is a regular mini-wedding (white dress and all, with an equivalent of bridesmaids and groomsmen). The quincenera's 'partner' is the girls' choice, but it can't be a boyfriend, because her parents still see her as 'pure and innocent'. This is the Mexican culture tradition. So, the answer to your question, is, why don't you be her partner for her quincenera, then take it from there. That would be respectable and acceptable. Good luck, sweetie!
2007-02-05 17:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a good guy for feeling bad but also sticking by her, why not try to do something really special for her on her 15? and tell her how much it meant to you that she chose you over her 15.. she must really love you, you don't want to let go of that for anything
2007-02-05 17:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it was her choice to make. I'd be sure to be especially respectful and open with her parents now though, since her mom is taking this pretty well, I think, all things considered.
2007-02-05 17:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by sarai_kristi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that because you were not honest with the parents, and that
not a good sign, of trust, and that should be there, you should
not have sneakiing around, you should have talk to the parents
then they could have trust you with their daughter. i can understand that quite well.
2007-02-05 17:22:47 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a) wtf is a "15"
b) learn how to use "there" vs. "their"
c) do whatever the dad says. no reason to cause tension.
2007-02-05 17:21:08 · answer #5 · answered by Jaremy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋