My wife dresses really sexy every friday for work cuz she goes out after work with her coworkers to happy hour. Yet when we go out she does not dress sexy. Should i be worried...we do have an ok sex life, but when she gets home from happy hour it is always better.
2007-02-05 17:09:00 · 7 answers · asked by chefyooper3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmm, i have the opposite problem. when i go out without my hubby, i look ordinary. and when i go out with him, i feel safe so i dress sexy and he complains! it sounds fine to me though...what your wife's doing. she probably wants to feel kinda single and sexy without being around...but not cheating you from behind. i wouldn't worry too much unless there's other clues.
2007-02-05 17:19:01 · answer #1 · answered by xyz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When she goes out without you dressed like that, she is seeking attention. It's not necessarily a bad thing. She may feel like she's not attractive anymore. She wants to know if she still has it. It's harmless. There's nothing wrong with a woman wanting to dress up to feel sexy. If she comes home to you, then that's all you need to know. You could try hinting to her that you like seeing her in that "whatever" dress when you two are preparing to go out. YOU make her feel sexy and you might be surprised............
2007-02-06 01:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she thinks of her nights out with the girls as 'fun party nights' so she dresses up to go out with them because that's part of the fun- i dress up when i go to parties even though i have a boyfriend. but when she goes out with you, she sees it as a date (which it is) but she doesn't feel a need to impress you anymore because she already knows you think she's sexy....does that make sense? You should talk with her about it if it bothers you.
2007-02-06 01:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by sarai_kristi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur wife is just having fun with her co-workers, of cos she needs to dress up else she might be one odd out from the group right? Usually when girls hanging around together they dress alike (it's like buddy thing in guys) don't worry girls just need to have fun..
2007-02-06 01:22:24 · answer #4 · answered by Yuu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is only trying to make a good impression on her coworkers and maybe flirt a little but she is not cheating on you if she was she wont come home and give some
2007-02-06 01:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess she needs attention from other guys. this could be a sign of her wanting to have some other things outside her marriage.
Improve your sex life with her!
Pay more attention to her like calling her sexy, cuddle, kiss her.. ,
make her feel special just like when you were dating her before married.
Do it now!
2007-02-06 01:26:25 · answer #6 · answered by Liv 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At least you're getting your own "happy hour" and she's not with someone else,,,count your blessings
2007-02-06 01:12:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋