2007-02-05 17:07:45 · 12 answers · asked by Liv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good question!!!!! I want to hear the answers to this one, myself. From what I gather........if he's attentive to your needs, aims to please you, does what you like, focuses on you and puts all his energy into you.
2007-02-05 17:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure if I should try to answer this question because I think it is so sad ......what business does he have making love to you when you don't even have the first stage of a relationship with him....you need to grow up and learn what makes a lasting relationship before anything else. Think about how insecure you are in this relationship that you have to ask that question. What does that say for your future? You obviously don't know this guy or you wouldn't need to ask it in the first place.
2007-02-06 01:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... That's a good question (Good questions are rare lately). It's not a matter of whether or not he's experienced, but how the guy makes love to you. Like if a guy is gentle, slow, and really passionate then he really likes you because it's suppose to be romantic and a special bond between the two of you (In those romantic movies it's always like that). However, if he's ******* you anal style, pulling your hair, or preceding really fast then it's nothing more than a hook-up, a good way to clear his mind, or fulfill his sexual desire (Mostly in porno's).
2007-02-06 01:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think so... I make love pretty similarly no matter who I am with. You take what you've learned in the past and apply that to the present.
I think you can get certain hints from sex, but more from what happens afterward and before, by the way he treats you etc. Also, I think you should take your cues from the way he treats you aside from sex as opposed to during sex.
Edit: Trust me, guys can be attentive to your needs even if they don't care about you. They just have to not be assholes. I have never had sex where I didn't care about what the girl's needs were. In fact, sometimes with the women I cared about less, I worried more. Guys don't want to suck in bed, as a general rule :-p
2007-02-06 01:13:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jaremy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sex is not always as important to a guy as it is to a girl . Takes a lot more than sex to determine if that man really cares for you. Look for solid qualities in his character that will outlast the sex. That will be the real test of whether he is in love with you or not. Based upon your question, I am feeling that you are already having some doubts. Trust your instincts.
2007-02-06 01:19:24 · answer #5 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How on earth could a women find herself in a bed with a man she doesn't think "likes" her, let alone, love her.
The only way you can be sure a man LIKES you.....is to withhold sex. If he is half a man with respect and mutual regard for you, he will still spend time with you.....go out in public with you, and generally treat you nice.
If he is ONLY after sex with no regard for you as a person, he won't devote the extra time before or after sex.....or when there is no sex at all.
Save yourself the heartache and get to KNOW a person first....make sure you get a better sense of who they are first, before you make love to them. You won't find yourself in this position....to be wondering.
Good Luck,
CF
2007-02-06 01:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of stupid q is that its like eating food then later trying to find out if it was cooked
2007-02-06 01:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by vakere2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...I would hope you already know he really likes you if he's making love to you.
2007-02-06 01:15:35 · answer #8 · answered by sarai_kristi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't make love to him unless he loved me
2007-02-06 01:11:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but you can tell if he's good in bed.
2007-02-06 01:17:27 · answer #10 · answered by impossibilityoftruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋