I'm 17 almost 18 years old and I still haven't had my first kiss. I have this guy friend who I'm really attracted to and I know he's also attracted to me. Would it be too dorky to ask him to be my first kiss?
2007-02-05 17:04:42 · 20 answers · asked by :) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dorky probably but their is nothing wrong with that
2007-02-05 17:07:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely don't ask him. That will just ruin the mood. I didn't kiss until I was nearly 18 (I'm a guy) but things went very quick right after that. Trust me, if it's meant to happen, it will happen.
You don't want to force anything on him.
My advice? Be flirtatious, touch his shoulder when you're laughing and he says something funny, etc. Let him know you're inviting the personal contact. That makes us men much more comfortable with kissing a girl.
To respond to other posts:
Kissing him first is a mistake if you've never kissed a guy before. It's possible he's never kissed a girl before either, but if he has, it'll be much easier for him. You can find out by playing "Never have I ever" or something like that.
Telling him to kiss you isn't wise either. That seriously ruins the mood :-\
2007-02-06 01:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by Jaremy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to care if you're too dorky! Be yourself xD haha, you're not dorky, so you won't be dorky. And if he likes you back, go for it! I plan to not getting my first kidd until marriage where the husband kisses the bride. It would be just so amazing to have given your first kiss to your husband...but that just may not come true if some jerk steals it from me ...YARR! GO FOR IT! Good luck <3
2007-02-06 01:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by Tarou-chan<3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not dorky or stupid. It is polite to ask. It's good that you waited. Don't forget your goals in your quest for romance.
2007-02-06 01:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by Raven A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope bring it on girl..kiss him tomorrow no time like the present...kissing is no big deal and u never know he might be a great kisser!!!! :) good luck hun
2007-02-06 01:08:34 · answer #5 · answered by ♥queen b♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him for a kiss, don't let him know it is your first.
2007-02-06 01:07:45 · answer #6 · answered by Corrine L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ask him just kiss him
2007-02-06 01:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he likes you, he should be more than willing to kiss you, you should definitley ask. its funny you should ask this question, i just turned 18 today and i still havent had my first.
2007-02-06 01:09:57 · answer #8 · answered by monotonous_life7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just kiss him like you mean it let your first kiss be special! you never know what it could turn into!
2007-02-06 01:14:38 · answer #9 · answered by Cortney M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to ask, JUST kiss him and everything around you will be hazy...!! it's really cool. Go for it girl!
2007-02-06 01:08:54 · answer #10 · answered by Liv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋