Will he call if I quit acting interested?

Question

I went on a date with this guy a month ago. We have kept in touch through text and phone calls since he only comes to california every 2 weeks for work. He has been the one texting and calling me and I've only returned them. I finally agreed to come see him this weekend for a few days and since then he has been acting not as interested.. He stopped sending the daily "i want to see you babe" texts and hasn't talked to me as much. If I ignore him for a few days before this weekend, do you think he'll act more interested? To give you an idea, he's 21 and i'm 22.

Answer 1

maybe he is getting nervous. don't call, and if he doesn't call you in time to make plans for the weekend, say you couldn't come because now it's too late to buy tickets.

Answer 2

I can't stand girls who play silly little games like this. Which is why i prefer mature women. Get out of the high school mentality, your 22 for crist sakes. He could be really busy with his work or maybe you are sending him mixed signals. Women expect us to be mind readers sometimes and read into the most obscure hints of interest.

Why don't you see whats up this weekend instead of jumping the gun?

Answer 3

he will not call. to him you have not shown any interest in him; sounds like he may have moved on.
if you play hard to get too much, it will backfire. if you like him, send him a message.
at the least, say hi

Answer 4

yes do it! it worked it my situation...only i was the one running back to him...
the less interest you show..the more attracrtive you become..it shows that u have your own life and u are not needy. Ignore him!

Answer 5

Try to ignore him and see what he does. If he is not that interested, he doesn't deserve you!