Ya its my b/f he treats me like crap but i luv him to much to break up wiht him wat i do?
2007-02-05 16:52:29 · 13 answers · asked by flamebabe1227 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This kind of behaviour is a reflection of self love. This tells you how much you really love yourself because if you really loved yourself...........You would NEVER allow anyone to treat you like crap. How much do you love you? Then do the right thing!!!
2007-02-05 17:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take time apart.. a short break.. a week or two... or a month. then see where both your hearts are at. If you met another guy that swept you off your feet.. you might not feel the same. I don't want to be a home wrecker but these can be previews for things yet to come. I know I would expect to be dumped if I did that. Maybe he just wants a reaction out of you!
2007-02-05 16:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody deserves to be treated badly. That is abusive. If you love him and he treats you like crap then he does not deserve you hun. Go find a guy that will respect you and appreciate your love and kick him to the curb . He needs his butt kicked..lucky im not there. I'd give him a piece of my mind alright. Girl, you need to tell that player to get the hell out. And go have some fun...Good Luck!!
2007-02-05 17:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by Shortydeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had someone else that gave you attention and treated you with respect and kindness, you wouldn't have much trouble leaving this guy!!!!! You deserve better. Loving yourself is more important than loving someone who treats you like crap!
2007-02-05 17:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you will take the time to pray and think about it I believe you will find that you are not in love with him but in love with love. Meaning you would really love to have a loving and fulfilling relationship with someone who feels the way you do, and have a strong desire to not be alone. You have the right desire but the wrong partner. Find someone who will appreciate who you are and what you have to offer and let him go find out that he's not god.
2007-02-05 17:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by windwalker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dets insane.
u love de person u FELL inlove with BEFORE, my dear.
if he treats u like crap, there is no reason why u shud stick arnd. ure just giving him de impression de u allow ureself to be a doormat.not gd, babe.
think it through. perhaps its de RELATIONSHIP det u love. wanting to save it and all. trying to make it work, trying to achieve de satisfaction of being able to save a relationship det is starting to turn sour.
its all up to you. but give ureself some credit. respect ureself at least. cos personally, he's not treating u wif any respect.
gd luck!((:
2007-02-05 17:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Record all the horrible things he says to you, and if you ever leave and are tempted to go back to him, just play the recording for yourself to hear. A friend of mine did this and it helped her so tremendously that she never ever went back. The best way to get over him is to find yourself another male friend as quickly as possible.
2007-02-05 17:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there. Sometimes you have to know what's best for you. Can you see yourself with him in a year putting up with his antics? If all else fails, tell him you've been thinking about taking a break.. to clear your mind.. and see his reaction.
2007-02-05 17:00:04 · answer #8 · answered by BeachBoarder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you like to be treated like crap. You can't possibly love somebody and they treat you like crap.
2007-02-05 17:00:43 · answer #9 · answered by chocbrownskin26 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Geezzz!!I've been there...been stupid...give yourself a time girl...be good to yourself..Ok, you love him but it's not worth it..in time you might meet someone else who could swipe your feet off but won't treat you in the same way as your b/f now...you may have LOVED him but it's not enough...
think girl...you'll realize...
2007-02-05 17:09:47 · answer #10 · answered by sweetangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋