So i finally asked by boy freind out and it turned out he liked me two, but now after a few days its been really awkward and boring. then friday he just randomly decides to ditch me and my freinds got mad and went and told him off....while i just went...oh wow.
but anyway he thinks that gfs are boring and that he'd rather play baskett ball yadda yadda,
i wrote him a note telling imthat i diddnt send them over there and that i diddnt start that crap and th call me. so that night he did and we talked about it and decided just to forget about it. except now it just seems like hes avoiding me, WTF? but then theres anouther thing....im his first gf and he has no idea what to do, so i dont want to break up with him because i just...dont, but then i do because he's a flake...he barely holds my hand or talks to me, i mean like an actulalconversation..its stupid but still everyones telling me he's a **** for ditching me liethat and that i just need to break up with him but...welll i dunno!!!!
2007-02-05 16:27:38 · 6 answers · asked by *_!PEACE!_* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on...
2007-02-05 16:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Girl before committing yourself to any relationship please remember that your happiness is the most important thing. The guy is not worth it. Just look at him; he may be handsome and has something most guys don't have but the way he treats you is the thing that plays a very important role in this relationship. And from my point of view, he's not treating you well as a boyfriend should.
I think the best thing for you to do is just break up with him before unhappiness rules your life.
2007-02-14 00:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by surfaholics 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reality is he just don't know what to do. I am sure his friends are giving him the wrong advice, which is affecting your relationship. The best way to resolve the situation is to tell him that he hurt you and you feel its best to just end it now. It may take him a few days but he'll realize what he lost and really try to get it back and if he doesn't, he wasn't worth it to begin with.
2007-02-13 18:05:48 · answer #3 · answered by DCARIES 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
baby, two things you should keep in mind
A: there's millions of guys out there that wont do that
B: nothing is more scary to a guy, especially a young guy, then being "chained down"
so, give him space.. if its meant to be, it will happen. if not, screw him, he's not worth it
2007-02-13 23:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by Mike J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is obviously not ready to start dating..leave him alone..if it was the other way about everyone would be telling him to stop putting pressure on you.
2007-02-13 13:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well, since hes new to this U hav to be one one to take action, and if that doesn't work, hes a *******, so brake up wit him.
2007-02-13 17:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋