3 weeks ago my ex-bf called me & asked me to go see a movie with him. The weird thing is that HE was the one who dumped me, we only dated for one month AND this call came after one year. I said yes, he picked me up, then as soon as the movie was done he drove me home. It felt kinda rushed, on the drive home when I asked him why he wanted to see he said, "I wanna see you every once in awhile". We never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. During this year although he never asked me to see him, he did talk to him on msn. Is he stringing me along & what does he want? He's 26 while I'm 21.Some say he wants sex, but he knows my beliefs and he can get anywhere since a lot of girls put out.
2007-02-05 16:24:50 · 12 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did he rush the date by taking me home after the movie cuz he doesn't like me OR was it cuz he felt awkward?
2007-02-05 16:25:31 · update #1
The two of you are not on the same page. You deserve better than someone picking you up to take you out when its convenient. He knows that you are special and he wants to play the field. Realizes that you are the type of person that He would want to marry and wants to keep a connection just in case he decides that he has had enough of whatever he is doing. Life is too short and do not waste it with a player.
2007-02-05 16:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wanted to see if you had changed dearie!
In the hopes that 'maybe' you had finally become one of those 'loose' women, who do put out!!
And I believe the rush home after the movie
just emphazises my point. He realized you hadn't changed because you 'weren't all over him. And it's obvious he is one of those guys who won't go down without a fight (hates to lose).
Even though he 'can' get sex from other girls,
he lost the battle with you because he didn't get
it with you, so to me, this was his final ditch effort to come out a winner!!
I'm a grandma, seen it all dearie.
He's just a sore loser who wanted to win!!
2007-02-06 00:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. Why would you even agree to go out with him again? Do you still have feelings for this guy? He might be trying to make you feel comfortable around him by being smooth. If you sence a bad vibe is because it is. Try seeing other people and move on and forget about him.
2007-02-06 00:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he doesn't know what he wants. its not the sex, because he knows your beliefs. it must be about the friendship. he misses you. i had a very close experience to yours. i was dating this guy for like 3 months ( never even had sex )and then we broke it off. about a year and a half later i called him just to say hi, and to see how he was doing...He became one of my favorite people to hangout with....I think its really nice to see old friendly faces every once in a while...
2007-02-06 00:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by Angie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've asked this question, and variations of this question many, many, many times. Don't you think you've received enough answers to make a decision? You appear obsessed with a person you only dated for 30 days. Move on.
2007-02-06 00:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just checking in on you to see if you let another guy take your virginity. He's like a dog drooling on the sacred bone.
2007-02-06 00:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wantd to see how you would react going out with him again. And, good for you, you acted very well!!
2007-02-06 00:28:12 · answer #7 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter if he "knows your beliefs" he's looking for sex. tell him that you have no interest and stop hanging out with him. if he can't get sec from you he'll move on fast
2007-02-06 00:29:09 · answer #8 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex
2007-02-06 00:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him back - start puttin out
2007-02-06 00:32:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋