help need advice guys plz help?

Question

so i really like this guy but he is very shy and im not that good of friends with him. like we only talk vaguely at school and he doesn't have a cellphone, myspace, or im. but like i just don't know how to start a conversation with him because i don't have a lot of time to talk with him when im not in class and i never know what to say. like when i try to start a conversation, he laughs (not in the mean way) at what i say in this adorable way but never really responds back. like idk

what are some good conversation starters?
like what are things not too personal that guys like to talk baout with girls?

Answer 1

He sounds kind of shy. Why don't you start asking some open ended questions (non yes or no questions) like:

Do you play any sports?

Do you have any hobbies?

Are you in any clubs at school?

Whats your favorite thing to do on Friday nights?

Ask questions where he has to say more than one or two words. If you ask, say -- "Do you play any sports?" and he answers with "Soccer," start asking questions about that sport! What position do you play, how long have you been playing, what team are you on -- dive into the lifestyle and he will open up. Remember, its hard to listen, but very EASY to talk, especially about yourself. So start asking some questions!

Good luck!

Answer 2

As a general rule of thumb...never talk about what you don't know about. People can tell if you don't know the subject. So if you wanna talk with him, look up some things that he's interested in. Find out his courses and his major, and do some research. Get into it, that way you have a great intellectual first conversation. That's how you'll know the deal. If he's kinda like "huh?" then it ain't worth it...if he actually can talk with you, then your in. And from there, find out his other interests. That's the best thing to do.

Answer 3

Small talk.Just be like so how are you today?If you two have a class together.So what did you think of(whatever class u with him) that test was easy or what ever you thought about the test.Find out you guys have the same taste in music.Ask him. So (name)what kind of music you like?If asks why are asking just say I'm doing a survey.Just small talk.The more you find out about him the more you'll have something to talk about.Good Luck

Answer 4

A good starter is a raelly good question. That makes them think a little and they beome a little intrested. Don't make the question too personal though. Say something like: What r u doin later or How r u doin? OR another way is him to talk to u. U make the choice. GooD LuCK

Answer 5

Give him your email address. that is what me and my boyfriend did so we could stay in touch, when I lived with my mom because that was the only time I could talk to him with out her listening in and I would go to the library so she wouldn't read it. but sometimes that is a good way to talk is by sending email's then that way you can break the ice

Answer 6

Just be honest with him and tell him how you feel. Most guys are very foreward with things like that and find it easier to just get it over with instead of playing games.

Answer 7

start with asking for some homework or notes which u know he has even if u also have them!!! i started the same way and i have been in that relation for about 6 months or more!!!

Answer 8

Ask him about video games or sports, most guys can talk for hours about both.

Answer 9

just go up to him and talk about thins he's intrested in. he might like sports or talk about tv, video games or movies. just be yourself and you'll be ok. good luck

Answer 10

Ask if he's seen any good movies lately