Been with my g/f for 2 months and I have fallen in love with her, and I am sure her with me. She is big on things not moving to fast so I am concerned about expressing this to fast for her. General opnion is 2 months to soon?
2007-02-05 16:17:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her how you feel, and when she's ready, she'll tell you she's ready
2007-02-05 16:21:55 · answer #1 · answered by Cindy F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend doesn't like things moving too fast, yes telling her now is too soon. That doesn't mean you cannot be sweet and do nice things for her that show you care, but you can hold off on the declarations for now. When the time is right you will probably start to get those signals from her.
2007-02-05 16:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think it would depend on how old you are. Teens-could be okay. Same with adult-unless she has been in a bad relationship before you, and wants to be more careful. I would suggest you ask her what she thinks is too soon-2 mo-6 mos, what? Maybe even ask her how she feeels about you, probably she would feel more comfortable telling you how she feels after you tell her how you feel. Does that make sense? Take care.
2007-02-05 16:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to soon for what? are you going to ask her to marry you? if so id wait a tad longer. if you love her its never to soon as these are your true feelings. make sure its love and not infatuation. you seem honest and sincere. if you feel she feels the same regarding love? whats holding you back from telling her? if, you love someone you tell them. before someone else trys the bait. have a great day and thank you for allowing me to answer your question from the heart.
2007-02-05 22:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by sassy2u2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Two months is just fine. I'm proud of you for going that long. You don't have to rush her, but don't let her hold you off forever. If she's not moving towards you too, there's a red flag.
2007-02-05 16:22:26 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is true love then no. My boyfriend and I were head over heals for eachother. In two months we told eachother that we were in love. It seemed to soon to most of our friends, but we both knew it was right
2007-02-05 16:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by Manderz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell her you love her when she has made it clear that she doesn't want things to move too fast might scare her away. Give it a little more time and congratulations!
2007-02-05 16:21:20 · answer #7 · answered by answergrrl3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you wondering if its too soon to tell her you love her? or do you want to purpose?
It all depends on how she currently acts when she's with you. If you know she is perfectly comfortable with you in any given situation then telling her you love her is never a bad idea.
2007-02-05 16:23:44 · answer #8 · answered by Zombie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think it depends on how she is expressing to you. Start off small, baby steps, see how she reacts, if she wants more she will let you know, im sure. Be yourself, and be her friend, most of all. Good luck!
2007-02-05 16:26:01 · answer #9 · answered by MEESH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two months is way to soon, wait till 6 at least
2007-02-05 16:20:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait a little longer. Show her how you feel, but don't tell her so soon.
2007-02-05 16:20:55 · answer #11 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋