I have been dating a wonderful girl for a while now. We have a great time togerther and always have a great time. The problem is that im 18 and shes 15. In June I leave for Active Duty in the Army. She still has 3 years of high school left, and I will probaly be in Iraq by October. I really could see myself with her for the rest of my life and I do not want to leave her. Her parents love me and I am at her house at least 4 days a week. What do yall think I should do? I really love her, and I believe her when she says it. And we have not done anything sexual, and I do not plan on it.. I love her for her.
2007-02-05 16:16:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, but you will get in trouble with the military for dating a child...Sorry but its the truth...She needs to date others and with you being gone and her being young, plan on her doing so.
2007-02-05 16:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you love her well go to the army let her finish her education and by the time she is done you can take it from there. You do get leave from the army I cant see were your having a problem with her age she is in your age group and her parents love you. You do get mail and phone calls to in the army and if she loves you so much Im sure she will be there when you come home. Good luck
2007-02-05 16:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she is young she may love you now but it depends on how long you will be gone for she will get tired of waiting and move on, but if she really loves you she'll wait but don't be suprised when you return home and see her with a ring on her finger and a huge tummy!! or maybe you could find other ways of staying with her but if its a must you that you should leave then good luck... better you go to prison than leave at ;east you will see her man too short these days to have them leaving and die in the line of duty it hurts a lot!!
2007-02-06 04:32:21 · answer #3 · answered by Baby_K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to her parents with your parents as well and see if they will agree on some kind of promise. If the girl wishes it. And keep in touch. letter, phone whatever will work from Iraq. And If you both have a real love and true love for each other it will prevail. She will wait for you if she really loves you.
2007-02-05 16:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by mandie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I want to thank you for defending our country, thank you. Second, I can sympathize the hurt your gf will feel when they're love ones away. If you want to be with her you might want to stay because only God knows what could happen and you may or may not have that chance with her. You will for a fact, if you do stay. And if you love her that much I think you should.
2007-02-05 16:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be safe over ther my freind died about 2 years ago because of a roadside bomb.but you cant expect her to quit living her life while you are gone. she is young her life is just getting ready to start with the boyfreinds,but if its meant to be no matter what both of you do while your gone you will be together when you get back home.God bless you I hope you come home safe.
2007-02-05 16:31:11 · answer #6 · answered by warrior women 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she is 15...she has 3yrs of high school left....your leavin....hmm looks like u got urself a pickle...well don ask her to wait don expect her to either if u love her u will want wats best for her and wat will make her happy... even if that means her with some1 else and movin on... things happen buddy and things like these will hurt u..but u will know that the one u love is happy and safe the way she chooses to move on... she might not even move on maybe things will work out for u guys after all just don expect it.. LET WATEVA HAPPEN, HAPPEN!
~good luck and hope everything works out for u
2007-02-05 16:27:04 · answer #7 · answered by krisi a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is always worth waiting for, u sound like a wonderful person, and this girl would have to be nuts to not want to wait for you, and just because shes young, doesnt ake a difference, it doesnt matter how old someone is, because love knows no age
2007-02-05 16:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by courtney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to remember she is only 15, when your away she will move on. Sorry.
2007-02-05 16:21:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋