would you say that virginity to a guy is just as important as it is to a girl? and what shoud i expect from my first time having sex? And what would you say would be a good age to have sex?
2007-02-05 16:10:27 · 21 answers · asked by just_right_for_u33 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After 18 years old, and don't think about it, only the right Person will come to you one day make you happy, marriage and love are the best time to do this when you are really in love and your relationship last longer is the marriage.
you get to know people and know life through school, work, uni, or college but never believe that what you think sex is or losing you virginity will make you win the right person.
win yourself, study, work and give and take form life only without being used or abused by any person no matter how much you were depressed or stressed, and wanting to make sex, don't do it until you find your love and he finds you, a good man is a for a good woman, but a bad man is for a bad woman.
2007-02-05 16:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by Summer O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys will tell you that they lost their virginity when they were 12 or 13..ugh. This is NOT a good age, especially for a girl. Women consider sex as more than just sex...it is about feelings and all that goes with it. To most guys...esp. young ones (although i'm not so sure it changes all that much as time goes on), sex is just something that feels good at the time, Guys also tend to get 'razzed' a lot more if they are still a virgin whereas girls need to respect eachother and themselves for it. don't give it away....you only have it to give once.
2007-02-06 00:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by Steph 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend stayed a virgin until he met the perfect girl (me!) so his was as important as girls :)
It'll probably hurt the first times but as long as whose doing it understands that and is gentle its all good
There is really no good age, when you feel ready is the best and make sure its with the right person cause you can never get something like that back ever again
2007-02-06 00:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
minimum age around 16, its not as important to a guy, dont expect much the first time. Actually dont expect much until your around 20 from then on it gets better for girls. And be safe about or before you know it your future child will be on here asking the same question.
2007-02-06 00:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by mrcarl92807 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virginity is only perceived to be more important to girls than boys because of past and present social customs. Do you really think that men and women cared about virginity before the dawn of civilization and the invention of a Judeo - Christian - Islamic God? Back then, for men, it was about spreading the seed, and, for women, about bearing the fruit, if you follow me. The purported importance of a woman's virginity in western civilization has many inlfuences, but I think -- and I'm a guy -- it's primarily an invention of men, particularly those of Judaic / Christian / Islamic faith, whose goal is the continued control over women's sexual and reproductive habits. Guess what? American consumer and spiritual culture continue to play it up, in spite of the fact that, in many respects, women now possess the means to change it in their favor. Mothers, stop telling your daughters that their most prized possession is their virginity -- it is, in fact, their newfound ability to choose whether or not they want to be sexually active, with whom, how often, and with what specific intention, if any.
2007-02-06 00:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by tjacobmill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold out as long as you can, too much sex has serious side-affects. Trust me, from experience, lower body and waist area will be depleted of power growth and healing energies.
I started having a lot of sex from 13 years old, and now, a lot of physically development was retarded because of it. Also, you know, there is a lot of craziness out there involved with sex. Take you time, get to know the girl, hang out, keep the sexual tension. It is just like anything else, the tension will make you stronger.
Anyways, if you can't hold it....u can't ....don't make yourself crazy. But maybe check out some yoga, or martial Arts.
2007-02-06 00:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by wegottadobetter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys, just like some girls, treasure their virginity while others dont. some, dont see it as that big of deal and sleep with anyone. i personally was stuck in between i just wanted to get it over with and i did. of course i regretted it becuase it was with someone i knew it shouldnt have been with and not the guy i was (still am) in love with. luckily he forgave me and we both value sex as an important thing you dont just throw around. (ive only been with 2 people hes only been with 3) and we have a wonderful intimate(and non intimate) relationship
You will often hear girls talk about how painful sex is at first. but i personally didnt feel any pain what so ever (it could have just been because the guy was no good ;) haha) usually its said if your athletic and use tampons your less likely to feel any pain. dont be nervous or you prob will feel more pain and you wont enjoy it.
the best age is when you feel ready. and be sure its with someone you are ready for it to be with (dont make a stupid mistake like i did becuae i assure you it made me feel so sad)
whatever you do USE PROTECTION be smart with your decisions. and dont consider simply taking birth control as protection because while that protects against pregnancy use CONDOMS for protection against HIV and STDS
(when it said like myself and my boyfriend at first i apologize we do NOT sleep around haha, i was just changing my wording and didnt take the whole sentence out)
2007-02-06 00:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by Jordan Alexis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, virgin girls are nice for guys but we don't really expect them..
Girls usually start losing their virginity at around 14, maximum loss
at 16 and then going back down at 18...Kind of a bell curve with
lows at 14 and 18 and maximum loss at 16...
Frequently when a guy gets a virgin girl at 18, he marries her....
2007-02-06 00:17:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel it all depends. if you dont care who you sleep with then virginity isnt important. but i think it is. i planned on waiting unti i was married (when i was really young) but i grew up and realized who cares about marrige it just has to be the right girl. i met her 4 years ago but didint realize she was worth being with untill 3 years ago when we got together. we waited 2 years to actualy have sex though. because we wanted it to be right. this was when i was 16. im 17 now and proud of the decision i made. i hope you dont regret your first time because sex is wonderfull if it i with the right person.
2007-02-06 00:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
21 is good age to have sex, but I never had virgin girl, so I don't know. Virginity for me is not important, person is.
2007-02-06 00:14:27 · answer #10 · answered by ilovelamp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋