was in a relationship for about 7yrs. I thought he still loved me, until lately he has moved out. He had asked me to marry him but would say it was just a piece of paper. I don''t know what I did wrong. I didn't realize I loved him as much as I do until now.
2007-02-05 16:04:55 · 6 answers · asked by jude50 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is one thing you should remeber - love doesnt just dissapear you just cant stop loving someone
Love is there to stay
What may have happen is that he got bored that is possible and then it seems like you dont like the other person any more
2007-02-05 16:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to feel for someone who can't reciprocate what you feel nor magnify the intensity of the relationship. It always ends up with us feeling terrible and bad about ourselves. If I was in your place, what I will do is to let him be. I will give him space and let him realize what a loss he will have if he lefts me. Let me give you a qoute " Pillars stand together but they realize their strength when they are apart". Tell him how you feel and give him space to figure things out. Make him feel that you will always be there for him. Also learn to spice things up. Do something to bring life into the relationship. He could be bored . Talk to him and be a friend . If all else fails, let go and if he comes back then it's meant to be.
2007-02-05 16:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by bittersweetlove21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm sorry to hear that, their is really not much you can do when the other person don't have feelings for you anymore, its hard and it hurts but the only thing you can do is move on.
2007-02-05 16:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by fallen_angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so common we all do it taking someone for granted until there gone than we miss them and want them back. He probably also felt that you didnt love him so he moved out. You need to talk to him for real b/c he probably missess you as much as you miss him and you are both being to stubborn to admit to it go for it. Good luck
2007-02-05 16:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound lilke he did want what you want int he realtionship,it
no one fault, it just happen sometimes with couple, but it normal
to feel like you do you were iwth him for some time. but since
it over time to move on. if it meant to be it will.
2007-02-05 16:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was never the right one for you if he wasn't excited to marry you.
I'm sorry you had to go through that.
Chin up.
2007-02-05 16:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋