All kissing does is make a girl smile and want another. A handshake would do just as well, at least you can wash your hands afterwards. With lip kissing you don't know where those lips have been. Besides, kissing is for marriage!
2007-02-05 16:04:21 · 13 answers · asked by ZORRO 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls are like a baseball game: there's getting to first base, scoring a hit, home run, popping a fly, catc-her, pitc-her!
2007-02-05 16:25:18 · update #1
Hmmm...tough question to answer. Kissing is so great because it lets you connect with a person in a way that a simple handshake doesn't. I am not concerned about diseases because I only kiss someone who I would literally trust with my life, and I know exactly where his lips have been. I completely agree and support you in saying that physical intimacy should be saved for marriage, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years and are concidering geting married and have never done more than a goodnight kiss, but to me, those kisses are important, because it lets me feel the love that I have for him. If kept pure and sacred, a kiss can be a perfect expression of respect, but you are right, it is easy to let it go to far and get too dangerous, but when a kiss is out of love and respect for eachother, as it is in my relationship, my boyfriend won't ask for more, and knows how important they are to me. A very wise man named Spencer W. Kimball, former President of the LDS church once said, "what are kisses if given out like pretzels, they loose all that is sacred and pure". You are an incredibly smart person, and I respect your resolve, but maybe someday you will realize that a kiss can be completely pure and good, it can tell you more about the person you love than anyone else, and if kept pure its alright. If you don't ever feel that, good for you, and I am proud of your resolve. Good job on saving yourself for marriage, but remember that perhaps a simple kiss does not give anything away, especially when it is to someone you love.
Too many people give everything away in one night, haha, it took me 2 years before I would even kiss my boyfriend, he is an incredibly patient man, but i have never regretted giving him that, and have no guilt for it. Make up your mind now, if you don't think a kiss is morally correct outside of marriage, then don't let anyone push you beyond your beliefs, you can stay strong. Your amazing!
2007-02-05 16:18:16 · answer #1 · answered by chelsie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that intimate kissing such as a delayed mouth kiss should not be done with just anyone. A kiss is intimate and a form of lovemaking not to be shared with just anybody. There are other loving gestures that a person can make to show someone that they like them such as hand holding, a kiss on the cheek or taking your hand to gently rub their back, hopefully you get the picture. You do not have to do anything that you are uncomfortable with - just need a friend who shares your same values.
2007-02-06 00:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why it's okay to kiss a child but not an adult, is it because of the deseas or the respect or culture or religious beliefs or values.
so no matter what people think, this is something private and personal and everyone is responsible for their actions.
however, that's true diseases can be in the mouth and on our skin and anywhere, even at home.
2007-02-06 00:09:21 · answer #3 · answered by Summer O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who says kissing is for marriage?its a healthy part in a realtionship. and i know a lot of men who like kissing justas much as girls do
2007-02-06 00:09:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm what century have you been living in?? Kissing is for EVERYONE know! Maybe it isnt the best decision but everyone just kisses and hopes they dont get sick.
2007-02-06 00:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
shaking hands just doesnt quite show the emotion that kissing does... it can make sparks fly between two people.
2007-02-06 00:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing should only be done between people who care about each other or they are just horny.
2007-02-06 00:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sure does sound like you'll be waiting for marriage.
2007-02-06 00:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by Toga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what planet do you live on kissing is awsome especially if ur in love, please don't ever ask that question in a public place ever again people will think your gay!!!
2007-02-06 00:10:28 · answer #9 · answered by Baby_K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good idea ! Where are you coming from ?
2007-02-06 00:08:00 · answer #10 · answered by kenneth h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋