OK. So yeah, I met her on Saturday night, exchanged numbers, etc. And now, I'm kinda wondering when I should call her. FYI, we're in college. So I'm wondering when I should call her, Thursday or Friday? I'm thinking maybe Thursday night or something? I don't know, I'm kinda confused.
2007-02-05 15:48:03 · 16 answers · asked by Green Eggs, No Ham 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK...I'm starting to lean towards, maybe, calling her on Wednesday or something. Kinda decent time, not too late, not too early (definitely), right in the middle of the week. Turns out that I did text her right after the party, but I fell asleep before I got her reply. Would you recommend me text or call her, and what should I say when I do? I've already said "Hey, what's up" so I kinda want to do something fairly original.
2007-02-05 17:16:57 · update #1
Call her tomorrow. It's been 2 days now, she probably thinks your not interested. If you call her on Thursday or Friday, you just look like you are using her for the weekend or whatever, and not that you really like her. Call her tomorrow, she what she says. Make plans for this weekend if you really want to go out. Don't make it look like she's a last resort.
2007-02-05 15:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awww frat parties, the good ol' days when everyone got drunk out of their minds hmmmmm. I don't know if this is quite the right environment to meet a potential lover - and you must also be aware that a lot of the sorority girls that attend frat parties have been around the block a couple of times so make sure to bring protection. I would say that it is possible, but not likely. If you are really looking for something more long term, try expanding your social network. Instead of going to frat parties every weekend, try meeting someone at school and asking them out on a date. Frat parties are fun, and there are girls out there looking for something long term, but usually the party girls are not really looking to settle down.
2016-05-23 22:29:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First rule of being the best guy ever: Just call when you want to - don't wait just to seem cooler. Nothing is cuter than a no-pressure text or call the next day to make plans for a week later. Makes you seem confident, and busy - as the key is to make plans for at least a couple days down the road so they have to wait in anticipation :) But you've called, so they're not stuck going crazy wondering if you are never going to call.
2007-02-05 15:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her already! My friends and I always hated the suspense... is he going to call, why isnt he calling, why did we even exchange numbers??? Then the doubt comes into play.. so if you like her call her and make plans otherwise who knows.. maybe you call too late and she has made plans with someone else. Be calm and confident when you talk to her.. she will be glad you called.. she didnt give you her number for no reason :) One last thing.. you will never know what will happen until you try! Good luck and hope it all works out!
2007-02-05 15:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by imisshim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would call her by Wednesday. The reason is if you would like to take her out this weekend, you want the opportunity to do so. She may make plans with friends beforehand, and you also don't want her to think that you assume she is just waiting on her life for you to call. Thursday is fine if you just want to talk.
2007-02-05 15:50:55 · answer #5 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON' T BE LAME!
Chicks dig confidence.
If you are doing something you enjoy and need someone to come along, call her. You pick the activity! If she hates it and you love it, dump her and find someone else.
Don't call her just to talk. That is boring!!!
Be exciting- Have a plan- Call her a max of two hours ahead of time.
Don't be a sissy-pants.
act like you have a pair
PS- texting is LAME.
2007-02-13 05:35:02 · answer #6 · answered by jason m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever feels right. If you REALLY like her then that would be leaving a message on her machine, if just like her a day or two. If there's one thing a girl hates it's anticipating a phone call that brings a smile to her face until when she does think about it she feels inadequate and that you don't really care that much.
2007-02-05 15:56:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anna C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her sooner isnt there a 3day rule or something for this...thursday is kind of a lil bit to long of a time if it was saturday nite u 2 met?
2007-02-05 15:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call on Thursday. That way, if she wants to do something this weekend with you, she has more time to get things in order (e.g. move plans around or finish homework).
Good luck!
2007-02-05 15:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by rhnotyouraverage1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As a rule of thumb you always call two days after getting the #. You don't want to seem too hasty and you also don't want someone else to get her.
2007-02-05 15:51:22 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋