ok, so there is this guy, and i like him, and im pretty sure he likes me, im not sure. but anyways he has a girlfriend, and he cheats on her with me. we havent had sex, but we've done stuff up to that level. Rumors have gotten back to his girlfriend about us, and she asked me about it, and i did tell the truth, and she didnt believe me. What should i do about him? and better yet.....her?
2007-02-05 15:45:14 · 11 answers · asked by just_right_for_u33 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl... You should never settle for being the "girl on the side." If he's got someone he calls a "girlfriend" and it's not you, then where does that leave you? If he really did like you, he'd ditch the other girl. Besides, if he has no problem cheating on her with you, chances are, he'd do it to you with someone else. You need to find a man who is only interested in being with one girl at a time. This guy sounds pretty slimey. Forget about them both. As hard as it is to get him out of your head... Remember that there's someone out there that's interested in being monogamous! Good luck! :)
2007-02-05 15:58:01 · answer #1 · answered by Heidi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's cheating on his girl now what do you think he'll do if you start going out with him? If it's not about sex then what is it about? Just think how she feels and thank about how you would feel if a guy cheats on you!
2007-02-05 23:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah denial. its amazing how we all fall under its spell when we cant handle the truth. he has manipulated, and cheated on, both of you(maybe even more) and you still believe he can be trusted. you know there is someone else and still you go out of your way to make a fool of yourself to be with him. i believe you are smart enough to know enough to know what to do. all you need is the confidence and courage to do so. i wish you the best of luck.
2007-02-05 23:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be better if you leave them alone. I'm sure you're an attractive gal. You can find someone who's single so that you won't have to face these kinds of problems.
2007-02-05 23:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by Candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you want him to yourself, fact is she got him first and if she wants to keep him she'll fight. But remember if he cheats on her with you then he will do it agian if he ends up with you so dont be surprised if he does that to you. By the way, dont get involved with guys like that and you wont have this problem, move on.
2007-02-05 23:50:34 · answer #5 · answered by jenny s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy cheats on his girlfriend w/ you, then he could just as easily cheat on you w/ another girl. Please be honest w/ his girlfriend. Think about how you would feel. And...ditch the guy.
2007-02-05 23:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by Amber _rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a single man and stop messing around with people's life
2007-02-05 23:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by Min 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmm .... people are crazy these days. Step aside. People kill for less than this. Stop trying to be bold, and be smart.
2007-02-05 23:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by Happy Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step off, your going to be in the middle of bull 5h@t
2007-02-05 23:48:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater. DUMP HIS *** he's just gonna cheat on you too.
2007-02-05 23:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by Kacey D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋