is it bad for them to have sex the night before the wedding?
2007-02-05 15:35:33 · 14 answers · asked by Dont get Infected 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Why? Just to rebel? Just to spit in God's face? Just to say "Hey God, I run my life, not You!" ? Remember, God is really there and He created his statutes because he loves us and wants to protect us. Why would you want to hurt Him that way right before one of the most special and sacred days of your lives, and after He has blessed you with someone so wonderful to love.
No, put God first. Hurry up and get married!
2007-02-05 16:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by nyqil_99 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, unless guilt (for whatever reason) is so strong that it makes the experience extremely unpleasant. In that case, it's probably better to refrain.
In my opinion it's actually a GOOD idea to find out if you're sexually compatible before you commit yourselves to each other in marriage. Imagine if you get married, make love, and discover that you're deeply unsuited to each other sexually. Then you're in a situation that's very hard to get out of.
Best of luck to you.
2007-02-05 16:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by prairiecrow 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have they had sex before? If not then I would probably wait. But I wouldn't say it would be bad if they DID have sex the night before. As long as no one gets hurt and both are willing participants, then there is no good or bad about that situation.
2007-02-05 15:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by Stormilutionist Chasealogist 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
1. Love is not something you fall into, it is built. Everything else is just infatuation.
2. Sexual purity is a command from God, not a suggestion.
3. Failing to honor your mate's commitment to purity and endangering their relationship with Christ to satisfy your desires is a bad foundation on which to build a marriage.
4. If you don't establish moral lines before the marriage, you'll find it EXTREMELY difficult to maintain them later.
2007-02-05 15:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
is it bad? for you or for her? ask her and ask yourself, wil I treasure this person forever or only 'till we stop having sex? is sex what's driving me to get married? or is the commitment to a family?....then wait 'till everything feels correct then give the supreme proof of love...give each other forever....and be blessed by God.
2007-02-05 15:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion:
You should have sex with the person you are going to marry. BEFORE you get married. What happens if you find out that you aren't sexually compatible? What if your betrothed shows you all kinds of stuff he/she likes that you aren't into? You should know EVERYTHING about your partner before you get married.
2007-02-05 15:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Just so they finish by midnight and don't see each other until the ceremony on the wedding day itself. That's bad luck, you know1
2007-02-05 15:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Why would you break your integrity to God, to your partner, and to yourself by not waiting one more night unless you lost your self control??
2007-02-05 17:54:44 · answer #8 · answered by Sparkle1 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I'd say they can wait just one more night, no harm in that.
2007-02-05 15:58:54 · answer #9 · answered by lotusmoon01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not! Love and sex are the gifts of the goddess....she meant for us to enjoy them!
2007-02-05 15:43:55 · answer #10 · answered by catrionn 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋