Why is god so against getting laid?

Question

So many religions say you need to get married first, etc. Can't god give a guy a break?

chico2149
I usually "put" the girl in front....of myself.

Answer 1

yeah, thats not Gods rules, I believe he had a child out of wedlock, with a MARRIED woman no less!
Those are mans rules. But if you believe in dogma etc.. then what is promised on earth will be upheld in heaven blah blah blah.

Answer 2

Once and a while, God likes to give a girl a break. Amoung many other factors surrounding the physical and emotional needs of women, we're the ones that can get pregnant.
This is best for men too, though. The Bible says that God will withhold no good thing from them that walk uprightly. He only withholds not-so-good things. Delight in him, and He will give you the desires of your heart.

Answer 3

He isn't. He told Adam and Eve to "be fruitful and multiplly" before they sinned!

He just wants it confined to marriage. Our society has changed its moral standards to the point where waiting is more difficult thatn in the past. Children are exposed to sex from a very early age on TV, billboards, and at school. There is not the assumption that teenagers will be sexually active, implying that those who don't are somehow wierd. That goes a long way toward an early awakening of desire. There is probably a nutrition factor, too. It's harder for men because so many women's fashions are designed to make men desire them. Soft-core porn is everywhere. (The old pro-porn argument that "you don't have to look at it" no longer applies! You can no longer avoid it! It's even in PB movies.)

Answer 4

It was His desire for mankind. Sex was basically given for having children, and He had to put sufficient desire in both male and female to carry this out without somebody behind you saying DO IT. But with every good pleasurable thing there always has to be honorable thing there like rules. Case in point what do you do with the kids? Can you see the value of the ten commandments? They help set limits or boundries and when they are broken and society pays one way or another. Plus make God angry or break His heart with our SIN. When we please Him society works better as a whole. Case in point why did the Roman goverment fall. Check out history.

Answer 5

The concept of God doesn't have human characteristics, like "being against something." God just is, God is a part of everything in the human experience, including sex.

Answer 6

God is not agains it, He created it. It's the Church leaders the ones that hate sex.

But every one must be sexualy responsable. It's not nice to get a HIV or something like that just for going against the system.

Answer 7

God is not against "getting laid" at all. Why do you think that? Because He wants you to be married and in love with your spouse?

Answer 8

Perhaps if you would get off this computer and attempt to meet people instead of conversing in cyber-space you luck would improve.

I have found that people who bring negatives to themselves often blame God because they don't want to admit that they may actually be part of the problem.

Answer 9

actually i met god and god told me that its ok for humans to have as much sex as they want. god just wants everyone to be happy and have a good time. the religions that say you cant do it before marriage are full of sh*t and that is why they are all wrong and should be abolished.

Answer 10

It depends on the God. ;-) In some religions, pre-marital sex is just fine, as long as it's engaged in responsibly.