well im chunky bit none the less gorgeous if i might say so and no my mom is not the only one that tells me so. But im really shy and when i do go for the guys thing never works out or im to scared to even advance because i think that they might not be attracted to a girl whos a little healthy.
2007-02-05 15:01:21 · 18 answers · asked by slanted eye cutiepie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, the overweight thing would be a bit of a turn-off if she's also nasty and has a bad outlook on life. (can usually see it from their expression).
If the girl is truly loving, cheerful, interesting and fun, and loves and is comfortable with herself, then i'd most probably date her! But you rarely see these types of girls, probably coz of the self-esteem issue.. :(
2007-02-05 15:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by Ken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I would. What attracts me most is a woman's self confidence and extroverted personality. I like some one with a sense of humor and some one who makes good conversation. A lot of people are a bit overweight. If you dress well and try to look your best I don't see why anybody wouldn't date you.
2007-02-05 15:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because your over weight doesnt mean that guys wont like you!! Just be confident in yourself! Some men out there prefer a lady with meat on there bones then someone as thin as a rail. It really depends on how you take care of yourself and how a guy feels about you.
Just like your not going to like every guy, theyre not going to all be attracted to you as well. Be freinds, get to know them if your interested in them and if its ment to go further your weight will be the last thing on their mind. good luck
2007-02-05 15:09:11 · answer #3 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I happen to not only be fat, but ugly too. There is someone for everyone. You just have to have patience. Find the guy that likes you for who you are on the inside. Don't give in just to keep a guy. He's there...waiting for you to find him. Don't settle for less.
2007-02-05 15:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter is a little chunky, and she is georgeous. She got herself a handsome guy. If you have a pretty face, and a good heart, you'll find one when your not really looking. That's when they show up, when you stop looking so hard. :) Good luck, remember, your beautiful, ...period!
2007-02-05 15:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by Mysteri O 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would definately date a girl like that. Beauty comes from the heart, sweetie.
2007-02-05 21:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always say, you have to love yourself before you can let anyone else love you...and men love nothing more than a woman with confidence and it sounds like you got that! Good luck!
2007-02-05 15:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by good luck 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
*** yeah its all about how you are with him not how you are to him.
Be yourself when your with the guy you like not some fake mole and you will be fine.
Dude Oprah, Kirstie Alley,Janet Jackson were hell fat and people were still attracted to them!
2007-02-05 15:07:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People come in all shapes and sizes and there is someone out there for everybody. If you are self conscience about your weight do something to change it.
2007-02-05 15:05:21 · answer #9 · answered by collinbarnette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you reported she's captivating. isn't weight interlaxed with splendor? in case you imagine she's captivating then pass for it. except the different determination is you're frightened for her well being???
2016-10-17 05:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋