What does it mean when I, the boyfriend, call my girlfriend 3 consecutive days, but when I don't call ... she doesn't even bother to call me? I haven't called her since Saturday night. It's going to be Tuesday already, and she hasn't even bothered to call me?
She doesn't have long distance. She would have to use a $2 calling card, which she always has laying around the house. Should I make a big deal out of this? Or are pretty much all girls like this? We've been together a year by the way
2007-02-05 14:59:17 · 18 answers · asked by Nicky_Nolstorm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She could be over you but she doesn't want to hurt you so she hopes you'll just go away or it could be that she's busy and it's nothing. You need to ask her to be honest with you.
2007-02-05 15:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by Lil Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be the one who has always been doing the work of staying connected. I will say wait and see if she calls, after she has enough time apart. People has different level of needs for staying connected. In the meantime, go and do something constructive or enjoyable for yourself.
2007-02-05 15:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by tax_question 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been together for over a year, then you should realize that your life doesn't ALWAYS relvolve around you- a good portion of the time, I'm sure. But not always.
If you're worried, then go ahead and call her. But she's probably just busy :-)
2007-02-05 15:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by LovesToCook 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wow im pretty surprised usually girls are the ones that call all the time. Wow i suggest you talk with her see whats on her mind because its doesnt seem like she cares as much as you.
2007-02-05 15:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by mimibabix3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wellllll maybe she doesnt have a calling card at the moment....maybe its easier if you call her...so call her and when you end your convo tell her to call u later...and see what she says and if she does....its prob no big deal....sometimes females just liked to be the ones that get phone calls from their men instead of making them
2007-02-05 15:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK even 2 bucks is a lot to some people . SEND her some money if you want her to call long distance. HELLO.
2007-02-05 15:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
aww lucky a$$. i had a long relationship and we brok up... i couldnt call my bf cos i thought it was weird he was expirenceing new things in his life. new country, new ppl. as a grl i serioulsy thought he had changed and i was afraid to call him.. i think that was a big mistake. i still cant get over him.. sigh..
but call her up and ask he if she still belives in your relationship [probably not in those words tho!]
and if she could bother to call u as much as u cal her..
and your a wonderfull bf 4 calling her .. [i wish my ec tryed]
much love and best wishes 4 ur relationship
xxxx
2007-02-05 15:05:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, there's something really wrong about that.
If a girl treated me like that, I'd move on asap.
A girl that really, really likes you wants to talk to you...even if it's just to hear your voice. Trust me.
2007-02-05 15:05:50 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DooD, Do yourself a favor, stop calling.
2007-02-05 15:04:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means that she obviously doesn't want you, and is too cowardly to tell you straight up. You need to dump her @$$ before she does you! Seriously!
2007-02-05 15:02:38 · answer #10 · answered by C.B. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋