Ok, well ive got a gf and we've been goin out for like ages now but i see that she doesnt really talk to me very much still, even after all this time, and like she mostly talks to this other guy and like barely talks to me its more like 95% the other guy and the other 5% me she talks to, but like her friends say she heka likes me and like loves me and all that stuff, i just want her to talk to me more, so can anyone help me out on this? i just wanna be able to talk to her more. thank you thank you very much to the people who answer this.
2007-02-05 14:56:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, just go up and talk to her. ask her y she doesnt want to talk with u that much. tell her how it affects u, and how u wish she would cool it a bit with the other guy. is she doesnt get it, dont bother with her.
2007-02-05 15:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm..sorry, but I know when I was in highschool, I talked to guys I liked...a lot. The guys I liked on a sort of basis, well, I didnt' talk to them as much. Maybe the age of going out with her has come an end? Have you talked to her about her being closed off and unsocial when it comes to you? Do you still have things in common? These may be some things to consider when you ask her whats up.
2007-02-05 23:02:34 · answer #2 · answered by taylorvoltaire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to her about this? She may really like you and maybe she feels shy or awkward around you. Was she ever open with you? If you used to be and isn't now, then she might not be interested anymore. If she has never been open she may just be shy. If she's talking to this other guy a lot, I would be really suspicious of her. Ask her and find out how she really feels.
2007-02-05 23:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by Shelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same problem lies with me too .even /my bf is not talking much with me . bt says he loves me ......Similar is ur case .Dont woory dear if she says she loves u then she does. All that is ur relationship has become bit old .U just need to refersh it by doing something diifferent .itz just a common problem .Nothing much 2 worry .............If u cud suuggest me pls tell me wat shud do on my bf birthday .Itz on 11 feb pls help me too.Thanks
2007-02-05 23:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by fancy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back
2007-02-05 23:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell her, don't make her chose, if she doesn't talk to you you probably don't have enough chemistry.
2007-02-05 23:02:24 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋