Hi! I'm writing because I don't know what to tell my friend who is 23 and she hasn't had any sexual experiences and she is becoming to feel uncomfortable. Our culture portays sex has the coolest thing and being her age she thinks she is a loser. It has been her choice to stay like that. ANy suggestions?
2007-02-05 14:52:34 · 8 answers · asked by ladybee9 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow. I respect that. Tell her that she shouldn't give into the pressures of our society.
And most importantly, she needs to be in love and the guy needs to feel the same way. If that's not the case, then she shouldn't change a thing.
I think that's really cool.
2007-02-05 15:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she isn't a loser. That's her preference and they way she chooses to live her life. When the time comes she will meet the right guy and fall in love ect, ect. Tell her not to be in a big hurry and not to be down on herself. People are different, what works for one person might not work for another.
2007-02-05 22:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she's a dimond in the rough. It's rare to find a girl who respects herself that much.Our society puts way too much emphasis on sex. The longer she waits for the right one the better her fist experience will be.
2007-02-05 23:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for her. Tell her what you think of her and for her she should be proud that she hasn't fallen into peer pressure. There's nothing wrong with waiting for the right time, person and place.
2007-02-05 23:01:17 · answer #4 · answered by lizko2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not a loser my roommate is almost 21 and is still a virgin its really not that big of a deal. she will find someone that loves her for her and not because she is sexually active
2007-02-05 22:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by piggylover_850 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with her and show her how it feels
or get her a guy for a one night stand
or find her a bf
2007-02-05 22:57:28 · answer #6 · answered by panta 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is best to be a virgin. I'm serious. Sex is a sin if you do it before marriage. Please just tell her to wait until she is married. You don't need sex before marriage. You can wait.
2007-02-05 22:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by tisdale 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her to go out and get some.
If not you don't want to hear about it
2007-02-05 22:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋